A Collection of Writings

The One?

How can you say that He is the one?

Did he have all the characteristics you want for a guy?

Did he have the qualities you have imagined?

Did he have the status you want?

Did he have a good family background?

Did he pass in your standard or even exceed?

And if he did.

Can you tell him everything or just the good things in you?

Can you burp or fart in front of him or you're just showing him how prim and proper you are?

Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with him or just the few months you planned to be with him?

Are you happy WITH him or you are just happy because you HAVE him.

Are you yourself when you are with him or just the persona you want him to see?

Do you really think he is the right one for you or is it because the people around you said that he is the right one for you?

Do you really want to him to be with you or just to showcase that you have the other girls dream guy?

Is he really important to you or you just want others to see how lucky you are to be of importance by someone like him?

And have you ever ask if he is happy to be with you or you are living the lie because of the benefits you two could have.

And have you ever ask yourself before committing with him if he is really the one you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?