1. To spend upon her in a reasonable manner
2. To be kind to her
3. To not beat her unjustly and without a reason
4. To show affection and mercy to her in speech and action
5. To not insult her
6. To not boycott her without a just reason and if it must be done then to do so in the house
7. To guard her secrets
8. To not hate her
9. To make things easy for her
10. To show her the best of manners
11. To be the reason she is saved from the hellfire
12. To have a reasonable protective jealousy of her
