Being a tomboyish pansexual

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Here is a PSA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So this is gonna sound crazy....
Ok everything I write sound crazy but that's besides the point right now.
This is some very serious business. (It must be if I'm spelling words correctly 😅)

I have a stalker.

Yeah it's that crazy of news. You know how in college girls are not really warned that stalking in a thing. Yeah, I'm here to tell you that it's real.
In a criminal sense, stalking is mostly male dominated crime. These men will stalk women that they know, so ladies and gentlemen it's not normally a stranger danger type of thing. And my situation can prove this right, I'm being stalked by one of my ex friends at my college. It's not something to really make fun of because to be completely honest, it's fucking terrifying.
Especially if you have a stalker that can go and possibly hurt you. My stalker won't hurt me but I'm afraid he could hurt himself and blame it on me not being there for him.
Especially for girls are reading this, if you ever feel unsafe when someone is around or if they are constantly around the places where you normally are don't hesitate to speak to someone. If it's your friends, the school, or your parents, don't hesitate to speak up. No one should ever feel unsafe while doing their normal routines.
But here's something that I've learned that have helped:
1) if your in college or in school and you feel like a student is stalking you. Don't hesitant to talk to student services or a women, gender and sexuality coalition. They will work with you and they better know the laws for stalking in your state. They will also go over things that you can do so that this person could leave you alone.
2) don't walk around places by yourself if you can help it especially at night. This could your stalker the opportunity to confront you or attack you.
3) this is extremely important: if you seen them or if they try to talk to you, document it. Even get text logs if you can from your phone provider. That you if you need to show evidence you can.

No one should feel unsafe in learning environment. You have the right to be there and you should from point A to B without feeling terrified. You beautiful human beans, stay safe. Don't do drugs alone, leave your drink unattended, and be weary of potential stalkers. Find good people and trust me when I say that they got your back. Stay safe my lovely chickadees!!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️