1. They accept you for who you are
2. They help you through tough times
3. They deal with your shit all of the time
And 4. You deal with their shit all of the time
So the first one can really tell if your friends are really your friends. I came out as FTM trans masculine to a select group of people who I thought would accept me. Most of them did (EVERYONE ON THE SERVAMP AND BUNGOU STRAY DOGS [the one that -_Lawly-_Nakahara-_ made for Bungou Stray Dogs] DISCORD SERVERS ILYSM AND THX FOR ACCEPTING Me) and some of my friends in real life did as well (like the friend from the last Friends chapter). But others not so much. I made a chat group with like 5 really close friends of mine and this was at 9 pm when this went down so lol. They conversation went like this
People in chat:
Akira: Me
Red: Possibly an ass hole of an friend
High Boi: The guy from the the last friends chapter and the nicest guy I have ever met (accepts me and just treats me like a normal human for who I am)
Pizza boi: Friend since 4th gradeNow let's get started
Akira: I'm bored and I'm exempt from math finals, so I get to stay up late
Red: I'm exempt from math as well but idc
Akira: I'm just watching relatable trans memes at this point. That's how bored I am
Pizza boi: Jesus I thought Red stopped it (he got like 69 messages no lie he told me at school today)
Red: So gudnite
High Boi: WTF is that supposed to mean
Red: No
Akira: Night me friend
*my
What is what supposed to meanRed: Oh
I didn't know such plot twists were allowed
LmaoAkira: WHAT?!
Red: bUt uR NOt TRAnS
Also I was going to mute you
(At this point I think his internet got messed up so the messages were mixed up)
*she won't stopAkira: -_- I'll shut up now
Red: Ok then
U know what
Ok then
Sho won't stop
Lol
Sends You Shh gif
(See what I mean)Akira: Me to all of the people who are transphobic
Sends a kid holding a cross with his hand upPizza boi: says random shit about his phone getting blown up with notifications and how it's worse that the Japan bombing that happened in WWII
Red and High boi: saying how that isnt funny, but it's fucked up
Sent at 2:12 am
Red: But ur not trans tho----------------------------------
The next part happened at school. So the guy sitting next to me (Pizza boi in the chat group) saw the Trans flag in a collage and didn't know what it was. I explained to him what it was and he asked if I'm one myself, I said that I was one myself. He said this
"I'll pray for you not to become one of those."
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It is important that your friends accept you for no matter what your sexuality is, gender orientation, what the believe ect. Friends accept you no matter what, and if they don't (and you give them time and they don't accept you still) don't be friends with them. Still talk to them so that they know who you really are, but be like acquaintances rather than friends.
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Plus since more people are finding out that I'm trans at school this one kid (one of my close friends) was like, "Yo, what is your preferred name since your trans." I said I didn't know and he said, " How about camarón? "
I didn't know what that meant at the time (BTW IM HISPANIC AND UNDERSTAND LIKE NO SPANISH JAJAJAJAJAJA) and he said that it meant shrimp in Spanish. I said that's fine until I choose a name that I would like to use.
That's it for today everyone BYEEEEEE!!!!!