Without self confidence, your life will be a mess. You can't even love or thrust others if you can't even thrust yourself. Self confidence is a basic element everyone needs to get a happy life. Even if you don't want a succesful life with lots of fame or a high-rank job, self confidence is very much needed.
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Well... how does one get self confidence? It all starts by accepting who you are. If you are talking to people and you hide yourself behind a specific role, you don't accept yourself. No matter what people think about you, just let your unique you be you. We need variations of people in the world to get lots of different ideas and points of vieuw. The real you can never be changed, unless you want it by yourself. If you change who you are because you're scared your friends or family won't accept you, you will turn your life into a theatre. A whole set-up life where you're fqking your happyness while feeling sad and empty on the inside. This is not what we want... So no matter what situation you're in, keep being yourself and don't let others decide who you are.
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The next step is all about taking decisions. What will my job be later? Should I wear these clothes on the party tomorrow? Should I talk to him or not? We often get stuck with such simple questions. We can't decide and let others choose in your place. No, don't do that. If you make your own decisions without the help of the others, that helps you building up your self confidence. No matter what you choose, there will always be an up- and downside on what you chose. Just take a risk for it and go with one of the options. If the option was bad, you'll know that you'll better choose something next time. If the option was good, you'll probably take it again the following times. Next time you'll make that decision your answer will be chosen much quicker and you'll build up self confidence, because you get to thrust your actions.
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If you pick up these two simple tips and follow them, I'm sure you'll be much happier with yourself.
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