Ready to start? Wait, don't even answer that! You'd better be cause here we go!
Just keep one thing in mind at all times: flirting should be, look, and feel natural. Make sure you know what you are hopefully going to do and maybe even practice before you do it! If you do not, the gestures and such will feel very awkward and not turn out the way you expect them to...
Hopefully you and that special girl are really good friends now! The closer you two are and the better you know each other, the less awkward this will be and thus, the smoother it will go. You should practically be best friends by now! If not, take more time to get to know each other better before continuing. This is key!
Of course, you also do not want to get stuck in the "friend zone" either. Just make your intentions clear from the start! Although it may feel slightly awkward, if you're obviously flirting, she will most likely get the hint that you're not just there to be "friends".
Okay, so here's what I want you to do. I am going to give you an (almost daily) list of different combinations of cute flirty gestures and whatnot. These gestures are separated into different categories such as "day one", "day two", and "day three", etc. Each time you see your girl, we will consider that as "one day". Just follow the suggestions of flirts you should perform for each day (aka every time you see that girl) and carefully read the tips provided along the way! Remember to keep it "natural" by remembering that if you have an impulse to do something other than what was planned, (PLEASE not too drastic! Especially NOT in the beginning!) I would say "go for it!"
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Alright! Now here we go:
Day One and Two:
Okay, so let's start simple today by simply starting with a friendly chat and a couple of quick hints for today. By this point, she should have visited your house and you hers multiple times, or at least she should have come to your house! As soon as you see her, well maybe not right away, but sometime during when you next see her, try and give her a little compliment! Yes, it may be a little hard to do, but try to be casual about it and if you really like her, you should be able to find a million things you could compliment her on! Do not give fake compliments! Just as you are able to tell if a girl is giving you a fake compliment, girls can also if you are doing the same. So don't try it! If you really must have some ideas because you absolutely cannot think of anything yourself, here are a few simple generic ideas:
- "I really like your hair that way!" Girls with appreciate this mainly if it looks like they actually tried to put their hair up nicely
- "Cute shoes!" Most girls love when someone notices their new shoes
- "I love your smile!" Or "You're really funny!" These are best to mention if you are both smiling and laughing
- "Cool bracelet/necklace/earrings! I really like it/them! Where did you get it/them?" I know this seems like a really girly thing to say but some girls really enjoy it when people notice their jewelry! Plus this compliment gives you some small talk to work with if the conversation gets slow.
- "Wow! You're really good at that!" Well, when to use this one is really obvious so...yeah. Need I say more?
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Anyway, you get my point, yeah? Just PLEASE don't go overboard on compliments!!! Give her one or two whenever you see her but the compliments should be subtle hints! So obviously not too obvious!
On day one OR two, show her something. Take your girl quickly by the hand without giving her any time to react! Just grab it and go pulling her along after you! Take note whether or not she pulls her hand away. If she lets you take her along, that's a good sign! If she leaves her hand in yours once you arrive at your "destination", that's an even better sign! Just be sure not to squeeze her hand so tight that she cannot pull it away if she wants to!
Hint: You can even suggest something as simple as just going outside to do this. Maybe walking to the park or going out to hang in your backyard!
Once you both get your shoes on, just say "come on!" or something like that, and grab her hand and run outside!
Try and get her number too if you can and don't already have it!
Good luck guys!
- Liv
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Ways to Charm a Girl
De TodoA guide with different tactics I find most effective when trying to charm a teenage girl. Being one myself, I know at least one of these will work for any teen guys out there trying to get that special girl in his life! Whether you want her as girlf...
