The Vaginal Tales

Prince Charming?

Sorry for all the crude language I'm using.

Happy Halloween.:)

We all must have read those stories where the girl meet a boy. He saves her from her troubles and they eventually fall in eternal love.

And we have heard this story over and over as a kid as soon as we opened our mouth for our mothers milk.

As a little girl we believed that someday our Prince Charming will come riding on a white horse and sweep us off our feet.

Will tell us sweet nothings and make us laugh like a old grandma looking at a fresh new piece of meat.( If you know what I mean.*wiggling her eyebrows.)

When we grow up we get to know that there is a a lot more to that.

That opposites attract.

Good girls always fall the bad boys.

The naughty girls love the nerdy guys.

And in the end the girl is the damsel in distress who needs to be saved by her "Prince Charming". Apparently.

But is this how truly it works?

Does the girl always needs to be saved by her other half. Apparently.

Or are there too many flaws for ones own good in such "stories?".

Why does the girl need saving from a guy who she is going to be romantically involved with?

Can't she for once, stand up for herself and face the situation face first?

Does she always need a guy in the picture?

Why can't she have her friends hold her and tell her sweet nothings?

And why does that sound soo wrong?

As a kid we weren't told the harsh realities of life and due to that we were made to percieve that life is all unicorns and sunshine.

My ass.

Well its not.

When I was young ,  I guess the only problem I had was that I didn't like milk and my barbie needed a prince.

FML.

See the point? Whether it be television or story books. A princess always needs a Go-Get-A-life Prince.

We need to change that perception so the little girl can be taught that many a times when she falls, she needs to get up and fight for herself.

She needs to be taught that she can be her own Prince.

That everything is not rainbows and sunshine.

That she doesn't need a boy to complete her and make her whole.

She needs to learn that friendship always overpowers boys.

She needs to know that boys can be idiots and just because a guy teases her doesn't mean he likes her but just might be playing with her innocent heart.

She needs to learn and know it all.

Because if we don't tell her then all her life she might end up bring a Damsel in Distress in every situation.

Pathetic.

Miserable.

Fragile.

Naïve.

And soo much more.

And only we can change that.

We need to be the change.

But first we need to change our mindset.

So girls out there. You don't need a guy to make you feel like a Princess.

You are a born Queen.

You are a fighter and are stronger than you know.

You can fight your own battles.

You can be your own sunshine.

Your happiness matters.

You are beautiful and do not need a hormonal teenager guy to tell you so.

So please stop looking for the Brave And Mighty Prince.

STOP.

You will get one, one day,  but till that time and even after that you must know how to  fight for your own good.

Must know how to face the music.

Know that people leave and things change.

Know that someday she might be all alone.

Simple.

And I'm so glad Disney is finally changing.

Movies like Brave, Malificent, Frozen etc are our ray of sunshine.

Our chance at a change.

They are finally showing something that is heart melting and soul touching.

THANK GOD.

Because you don't a PRINCE CHARMING you just need You to be your own Saviour.

Well that was the third chapter..
Well I really hope you guys liked it.
It was kind of a topic I really wanted to talk about.
It took me a long time to understand this.
So I hope I helped.
Geez.....
And umm if you have any random ideas and thought you feel that should be addressed please don't hesitate to come forward...
I would only welcome them.

Thank you!
XOXO