Rant! Important!

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This is addressed to all of my readers/fellow BL lovers.

So I've been really busy to write lately.

I'll start writing a lot again after I get my fucking life together.

I'm really sorry for the wait!

I'm trying my best to find time for Wattpad too.

Anyways so I found this Chinese Drama called "The Untamed" that is based off a BL novel. It's so good 100/10 would watch. 

It's my baby and I'll do anything to defend it.

So that's what I'm about to do.

I'm going to defend this book and it's author, because they are both precious and don't deserve to be berated or criticize  

But first let me show you what my babies look like

OMG THEY ARE SO PRECIOUS TO ME LOOK AT THEM SO CUTE!

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OMG THEY ARE SO PRECIOUS TO ME LOOK AT THEM SO CUTE!

Alright I shall start my rant.

In chapter 117 Lan Zhan has a bit of a rapey dream of his lover Wei Ying.

Okay let me just start with having a dream about doing the naughty things doesn't immediately make you a pervert. Just like murdering a person in your dream doesn't make you a murderer. Again this was a dream Lan Xhan has no control over wht he dreams he isn't like some people that can just change things in their dream.

The main problem is that some(that shall be unnamed) though this chapter was romanticizing rape.

Hehe you are so fucking wrong.

romanticizing rape = x person falls in love with their rapist, y

romanticizing rape ≠ two people in a consensual relationship exploring a kink that doesn't involve an unconsenting third party, or one party having fantasies about it involving their partner

I agree that intimacy in BL is often portrayed as painful/almost always near the edge of rapey. Which is sad and disappointing that I understand. 

Romanticizing Rape is wrong I agree. 

However you need to understand what the fuck you are saying before you go and say it.

They seemed to miss the point that it is only a dream from Lan Zhan. but only the old incense make an influence on Lan Zhan and Wei Ying's sprit to draw them into this sexual dream. And from the novel we can see that the dream was happened long time ago, which can back from the old days when Lan Zhan did not be with Wei Ying. Lan Zhan suppressed his desire too deep, and could not vent, and then he had this dream.

Some of them were thinking about it too deeply, rape kink is not the same as wanting to rape an actual person or wanting to experience it, it's just roleplay really. Just like pet play, do you think they actually want to have sex with a dog? Or bondage, do you think they actually want to be restrained by a random person? How about masochism, do you think they want to be beat to death? Seriously?!

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