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EK sexually assults my daughter. Finds out hard way she can take care of herself

So this is my second story. Little background I'm a Iraqi war vet and I believe in teaching the women and girls in my life to defend themselves with impunity. So at the very young age of 4 I have been teaching my child to defend herself.

Story time: Im at work one day and I get this call from my daughters school. I go outside to answer the phone and the convo goes like this

(Cast) Me: Terminator P: principal

P: Hello Terminator i need you to come pick up baby Terminator

Me: Can I ask what this is about?

P: Yes your child has been in a fight and needs to leave the school premise

Me: What do you mean she's been in a fight? What happened? I mean she wouldn't just pick a fight

P: Well from what we can tell EK was running up behind her and grabbing her butt. She apparently warned him to stop and when he wouldnt knocked him out cold

Me: So im confused what is happening to the boy then?

P: Well your daughter seems to be the aggressor and we need her to leave and she is gonna be suspended

Now my child at the time lived with my ex-wife and i had heard from the ex that my kid was having an issue with this boy for a while now and I knew my daughter had gone through many times telling on him to no resolve. I also knew that he had been told many times by teachers to stop and hadn't.

Me: Wait so nothing is gonna happen to the boy who has been sexually assaulting my daughter for X amount of time?

P: Well Mr. Terminator she did strike him once and knocked him out. She needs to learn violence is not the answer. She needed to bring it up to the attention of a teacher.

Me: Ok so what I am hearing is your school is saying its ok the sexually assault a girl and that the girl in question needs to just be a victim of assault over and over again or be punished. Is that about the jist of it.

Now i hear silence as the principal mulls over what I have just said. I can tell they are trying to justify this weak tea bullshit. I compose myself.

Me: So here's what's gonna happen next. You can either punish both or punish none of them. Because i promise you the last thing you want is me in my dress A's and tv reporters showing up and blasting your whole school over this. Now I can understand that her punching this brat is unacceptable. But what I will not take and neither will she is him not being punished as well. Do i make myself clear.

P: (silence)

Me: Also why are you calling me and not her mother?

P: Well Mr. Terminator she told us to call you.

Me: You listen to me and listen good. I swear to you and God i will not put up with this. I demand a meeting with you, her teacher and this boys family. If I can't make it my ex wife will. If this isn't resolved to my liking I will bring a holy hell upon this whole stick house you've built. Do you understand me?

P: Yes sir

Me: Good. Call my ex let her know the time and date. We will coordinate from there

I hang up and call my ex. She agrees with me and I go back to work. About a work week later there is a meeting but unfortunately I have work and my ex has to go in for me. From what I am told this boys family tries to play it off as "boys will be boys" and tries to get my daughter expelled. There are times when I remember why I married my ex and this is one of them. She proceeds to tell them that the last thing any of them want is me to get more involved than I already have and that if i have too i will bring it all burning down. Every brick.

Outcome was both were suspended for 4 days and the boy moved to a different class. And I never got a call like that again.

Moral of the story my kids a badass and got a cake for sticking up for herself and a lot of love on both ends of me and my ex.

Edit: Sorry for not being clear. She was 7 and a half at the time of the incident.

- u/random3177