i have been a verryveryveryveryveyrvyev very very bad friend. i thought maybe distancing myself from some of my friends would be a very safe and smart move. messed up . but one of my friends. i didnt say anything because thought they would naturally get it even though i dont really talk about anything but my my 2 obvious issues, i think thats the problem, i assume people just know things and it makes me look like an asshole.