Promising Young Woman

...He's Just NOT That Into You...

A good friend of mine told me that he didn't make promises without being guaranteed the ability to keep them. And how I should be patient.

I felt that.
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I want to make things easier for people...

Ladies and gentlemen, we take romance way too seriously. If no one has told you this, then I will be the first.

1. Women are more complicated than men.

I'm a women, so I'm not one bit offended by my choice of words.

'Us' girls are the biggest reasons why relationships don't work out. Besides guys obviously cheating, or couples having bad communication skills  (I'm just putting it out there), when having a crush, we spend way too much time observing signs things that are barely there, and we basically think that it's love. It's definitely not, and let's not forget about the spark.

The damn stupid spark! The spark was specifically designed by men so when we don't receive calls or messages, we stay on edge, wondering when he's going to say something. We fed on the anxiety and drama, the feeling of excitement, thus calling it butterflies.

I get it though. When things are too good to be true, we slowly start losing ourselves after having many expectations about how a guy should be. 

No one is perfect. Remember that before judging a person.

2. Never try to fix what's already been broken.

Guys, some people were meant to fix themselves. Wattpad, books, and movies have manipulated our minds into thinking that some people will change. Sometimes we have to be realistic and let him/her heal by themselves. You'd be taking a risk if you haven't sort out your life problems when focusing on another.

3. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Let's face it. 99% of the male population are cheaters. My only advice is that if know that you are not happy with someone, why not break the relationship off instead of causing some person a long road of heartache.

Ladies. Please don't end up getting even. It will only cause more misery. Revenge seems easier once planned with years of determination and anger. I suggest you don't do it.

4. If he's not into you.

It pains me that I have to say this to my friends and even to myself. If a guy/girl is not into you. He's Just NOT That Into You. I would rather be considered as a bitch and not spoken to for a while, then let my friends (guy or girl) suffer over a douche.

The conclusion.

All I'm trying to say, is that if a guy likes you or simply wants to be with you... He will make it happen. Don't be the exception. Don't be the rule.

Be patient. Be less obsessive.

Be You.