Four guides to the cosmic game of love

Fireworks

Over a long time, I have wasted my time, energy, and fireworks on girls that do not seek me or even want to be a part of my imagination. I never realized that I was supposed to shoot my fireworks towards the direction of someone who share same chemistry and feelings for me. Fireworks in a relationship is referred to your emotion and resources. When your emotion and resources is channeled to the right lady, it gives you the impetus to dive into a religion. I got to know a friend called ‘Indianere’ via Facebook, we chatted on Facebook like strangers because I was at Lagos State and she was at Benin City. Eventually, when I was at Benin City I saw Indianere at the hostel where I am to stay to continue my study in Paramedicine. Shockingly, she goes to the same school with me and we study different programs. When I saw her for the first time, it was like a “lost and found”.
      With due regards, my imagination was that she had the same feelings I had within my ‘hearts of hearts’ but I was wrong. The energy and emotions that I put towards her was a waste because she had a boyfriend that she would not let go despite his ungodly nature. Even as at that, our zodiac sign was not compatible with each other. But I was resistive to the facts of it even when it was obvious to me. Feelings do come and go but it stays for a very long time if it has a common ground, ours had no common ground. To be with a woman or man that loves you so much or share same fireworks with you is what everyone craves for. Obviously, you might want to say “what if our zodiac sign is not compatible”; it leads to a toxic relationship were one benefits and the other lacks or both couple lack. Having the mind set of 'dating for marriage' is a marvelous concept that helps save the stress of investing on the wrong partner. And also it gives you the advantage of preparing your future home and the right to checkout if the attitude of your lover is contrary to your standard.