Four guides to the cosmic game of love

Initiation

It’s been a while I told a girl “I love you”. A genuine “I love you” comes from “fallen in love”. The feeling and effect of these three  words makes ‘I love you’ the first element of initiation in a relationship. What makes your first element of initiation rosy is when you say it differently from every other guy she has ever met who had eventually told her those three letter words. Telling him or her ‘I love you so much that I could eat you’ is a way of saying he or she attracts you so much that you can’t help it. In addition, you could also whisper to her that “I have used the waters of my soul to wash your feet”. It’s a way of letting her know that you are ready to start a journey with her that attracts romance and karma at every point. The second element of initiation in a relationship is connection with her family or friends. Funnily speaking, my ex-girlfriend invited me to her father’s house and unfortunately her mother and father was not at home, her elder sister was at home but was too busy to come out and her cousin sister knew me so eventually she came to the siting room and gave me a warm welcome and she fled away. Well, it was just me and her in the sitting room, we eventually talked for a while until seductive romance knocked on the door. The next day I came over to see her we were at her backyard, her mother was so eager to see me because she has heard so much about me and probably because each time we talked on phone she never stops laughing... when her mother was just  about to talk with me, she told her mother “I have told you already”. My guess was that I had been the subject of a talk already…  At frequent times, I usually have long talks with her elder sister on phone and sometimes with her mother. We cannot always hide our relationship from our parents or friends because one way or another our relationship tends to affect the people close to us and also decision making. Having a connection with the family tends to spice up the relationship and create a form of trust. Not to be stupid, understanding your partner is a beautiful thing that should never turn ugly at any point. It shows some sense of genuine love.  Her interests, likes, dislikes and stories should always be at your finger tip because she is part of your world.