TRUST
Trust is a difficult thing to deal with. Specially now that people tend to hide who they really are. You can only trust if the person is true.
People are often too busy trying to fix others that they forget to fix themselves. When you have seen what a person has been through and the choices they have made to stick around this place or to simply get away from somebody, that's how you figure out who they are.
The safest way to make friends is to observe them & to be silent as if they wouldn't know what's going on in your head. Let them wonder and ask you a thousand times.
Look at all the things they have done and things that have changed them. Pay attention to how they react to certain things.
Then & maybe then, may you decide if they are right for you and therefore trust them.
¿Por qué crees que yo no tengo un montón de amigos?
PAIN.
People treat this differently. Some use it to distract themselves, others let it consume them. There's only a small percent that learn how to live with it.
Kids today think it's cool to take the "pain" away by adding even more, but what they don't realize is that they don't have to do that. It's a lot better to be honest in who you are and not let it kill you inside.
When it consumes you, you change. You skip three steps in the path you're going and you fall and get up again but you are not the same anymore. You have scratches on your knees and you have dirt all over them and your hands are red. In your head all you're thinking is:
"I have to fix myself".
And out of all that stress, it's only going to get worse. That's when it really starts to consume a person. Then we get addicted to either a drug, an action, or a person.
Even then, the pain will stick. The pain won't go away that easy unless you accept it and let go by yourself.
LIFE
When life is seen from a distant angle, it is beautiful.
When it is distinguished in humans, it is cruel.
Each person treats it differently. Some people live up to their full potential, and others go with it. People like me are ready for the unexpected. Prepared to be taken down by something that we can't control.