HIDDEN THOUGHTS

TAKE IT EASY ON YOURSELF, AND THEM

I just hope this reaches many people across the world, you know because i have been getting complains from both women and men
and i had to try and make people understand that they shouldn't be afraid to love.

Girls, some of these men that approach you are just having pure intentions, not every guy that approaches you has bad intentions, and it all depends on your first impression and how you take care of yourself too.
when you meet a guy, or lets say when a guy approaches you,it determines the way you two will end up in the future. If you express yourself as just a girl who depends on men to do everything for her, trust me even a friendship with this guy will not last for long.

Here's a secret, men are turned on by independent women, however poor or not really stable you are, as long as you try and manage things and get things done, is definitely a turn on, and the more reason a guy wont hesitate to invest in you because he knows that you will give him a strong family, and a future is secured. Lets not beat around the bush, we aint getting any younger and we all need to get to the next stage of life that means that we have to be serious with whatever we have now. Get serious with studies, with relationships, with life, try to make your future for yourself. you are not always going to live im your parent's house, you will have to move out one day, and you have to start getting independent early. learn the world's tricks, failures are not to make you weaker but stronger for the next difficult task.

Now,
dear men,
when you have feels for a woman, don't play with a woman's heart, its not a toy(girls too shouldn't do the same)
i am sure that your parents most of all, mothers, never raised you to be a guy who would just toss women's hearts like a ball and expect to be respected.

Remember, karma exists and you don't have to watch your daughter one day crying over a guy who did the same as you used to do back in your younger days.
Respect women because that is where you came from, a woman raised you, took care of you, turned you into the man you are, so if you don't feel the same as the girl you been with, tell her the truth, don't let her watch you getting distant and seeing other people, it hurts.
This goes for both ways too, its better for the truth to be out, stop hurting each other's feelings, it won't cost you anything but insecurities and fear.

Love is a beautiful thing,
and people should not fear falling in love, at some point its gonna get hard, but you will always pull through, no one said love will ever be easy, its just about being able to find someone who is worth the hurt