The Choice of Love

Prologue

Choice..

Every path and step we take in our life, there's always a choice we have to choose, it's either a choice that we want or what others want.

It's either a choice that's right for us or a choice that's isn't.

Love. It's a word that some of us use a lot. "I love that color on you." or "I just love pizza." "I love, love, love you" to our little grandchildren and to our pets.

Yet, some of us never feel comfortable using the word out loud. Philosophers, Theologians and now neuroscientists and clinicians think a lot about love. We use this word for so many emotions

Why do people want to try love? Why are they so desperate for love? Is it to be happy? Or is it because they just want to experience of being inlove or to be loved?

I'm wondering if anyone else has an answer to my question.

Well, everyone has different meaning and languages of LOVE.

Some might be quality and time. Some might be physical and affection and some might be money and gifts.

Love..

Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure.

When you think of the word Love, it is known as a positive word..

Love. Care. Supports. Affection. Secured.

But little do you know, that word has a deeper and even a sadder meaning of Love. It is a very complicated thing you have to do.

Including the fights, misunderstanding, trust issues, not enough reassurance and many more.. and people just seemed to not know about that.

True Love...

True love means that you have an unwavering, unbreakable and unparalleled fondness and devotion for your partner. It's also defined by an emotional as well as physical connection with him or her that runs immeasurably deep, and life without your significant other would be practically unthinkable.

True love feels like security and stability.

You don't worry about breaking up or your partner leaving you abruptly. When they go out of town, you might miss them, but you are also happy for them, because you want them to travel and have new experiences.

Basically, whenever you feel jealous, you are able to talk about it with your partner.

When you can't, then it's no longer true love.

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If you enter the stage of love there's always a choice or decision you make.

and once, you made that decision and choice its either going to hurt the person you love, or it's going to hurt you.

And the worst part is when LOVE partners with LIFE, because it doesn't give you any choices to make, it decides its own, you don't have control of it, and it is not your decision..

But others still want to take the risk.

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It started 2 years ago. A girl who hates boys and doesn't believe in love. But guess what? She fell inlove. But the love the she received had no choices, She couldn't do anything.

"If only i had a choice, it wouldn't be this complicated.."