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Love Yourself First

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Thank you to my newest reader, RnoomaQueen, for the advice and the idea for this chapter! I really hope you enjoy, and you keep reading in the future!I know your advice was to be myself and to not give up, but it made me think. You can't really be someone you don't love.

I think this story is perfect to start our chapter. I was talking to a friend of mine a day or two ago, and he wanted to get in a relationship, but he thought he was too ugly. This was put in my heart to tell him to think better about himself, but it took me a little minute to realize that what I was telling him was actually my new chapter. So, this chapter, even though it's pretty obvious now, is about self love.

The Importance of Self Love

Like I mentioned before, being yourself is basically impossible without loving yourself. But what is it about self love that makes it so important? Self love is the start to gaining self confidence. The walls of the castle, self confidence, that lives in the heart of the land, your mindset and life. Those walls decide what energy gets in and what energy stays out. If you let positive energy in, you fill the castle with positivity, and that benefits the land. If you fill the land with negative energy, you fill the castle with negativity, and that disbenefits the land. Negativity stunts mental, emotional, and personal growth. That's not something that I would like for anyone. The best thing to do is to find a way to grow self love.

How To Grow Self Love

There are many ways to grow self love. One way is to write one good thing about yourself on a Post-It and put it on your mirror every morning. Another is to just say good things about yourself in the mirror every morning. The one. I told my friend, and my favorite so far, is to make a list of good qualities and add one thing to the list every day, and to read the list the following week, and continue the process, reading the list every week after countless revisions.

Love Yourself First (L.Y.F.)

But you must love yourself first. If you don't, others won't know how to love you because you won't know how to love yourself. Learn to love yourself, and teach others how to love you. But if you have the right people in your circle, they will value you, and love you how you should be loved, and help you to love yourself.

A/n

Thanks for reading this chapter. Tell me if you liked it. What do you think about loving yourself? Comment if you want, and please vote and share. It would mean a lot. Follow me on Instagram if you want, I'll give you my Instagram names. Just pm me for them. Again, thanks to RnoomaQueen for inspiring this chapter, giving me advice, reading the book, and I'm really really happy you enjoyed the book. I hope you all stay safe, stay intelligent, stay enlightened, and grow positively towards your destined and bright futures. I love you all so much, and I'm always here if anyone needs a friend or just someone to talk to.

Till next time,

~Young Johan