You always have that one friend who seems like they're afraid of nothing so they invalidate your fears.(Example)
Friend: why are you so scared of spiders, there tiny.
Me: (holds back angry demon noises)
Also me: because they're scary.(Enter them, explaining why I shouldn't be scared of spiders, and how much they do for the earth, as I hold back my demon of anger.)
And this situation always seems to happen, either randomly, or after an encounter with your fear.
So shut up Karen, I bet your afraid of mice.