Zarry are in a toxic relationship but eventually it becomes better.
For Ohsoyoustrum happy birthday babe🥰
Whenever you would talk about Zayn you talked about Harry too. Whenever you would talk about Harry you talked about Zayn too.
It had been like that for as long as anyone could remember. Zayn and Harry. Harry and Zayn. The iconic power couple.
But at some point it became a problem for the both of them.
See when you can't exist as yourself and constantly have to be tied to someone wether it be for good or bad, it gets frustrating.
So the couple went from being inseparable, head over heels for each other, to proper hatred. But the fact that they had grown so used to being together made it hard for them to break up.
And right there and then, the nightmare started.
The fights they had were the absolute worst. Not only did they spark from literally nothing or small inconveniences, but they lasted for ever.
At first it was for hours, then often for days and they even found themselves not talking for weeks! Or doing the opposite...cursing each other out for weeks.
You think it is childish? Well you couldn't be more right. Saying that the people around them were shocked by the drastic change would be an understatement.
Even themselves knew they were ridiculous but the hatred only grew and pushed them to keep on going. You can do so much more hurt to someone that you know by heart, push their buttons, shake the knife in the wound.
And that is exactly what they did on a daily basis. They were basically playing who can be the most hurtful and disrespectful or in other words how disgusting to you do I need to be for you to leave me the fuck alone.
Because truth to be said, neither of them could bring themselves to break up with the other. As much as they acted like they hated each other, one another's presence was required to feel a sense of safety.
And that is exactly the type of behavior and feelings that determines the fact that you are indeed in a toxic relationship.
Harry knew it. Zayn knew it. Everyone else and their mamas knew it. But they just couldn't bring themselves to separate.
The moment when they realized that they were going too far is when their families got involved. After that everyone kept pushing the need to go to therapy in their faces so they did it.
Sadly they didn't even do it because they wanted to but just so that people could leave them alone and stop being all up in their business. But hey! At least they were going.
The first session was the worst thing ever. Constantly talking and yelling over each other. Sending proper death glares and lots of cursing out and lots of hurt and tears.
The therapist had gone home that night rethink his life because what the fuck? And most importantly how the fuck?!
The only things he has managed to concluded from the session were that they are a couple they used to love each other but now they hate each other but don't want to separate.
After all the chaos that happened during the last session, he had decided to come prepared this time.
This one went way smoother, and they did some insane progress. Managed to find out what caused the switch.
So now what was left was to find a way to reopen the wound and deal with the reason of all their problems.
So they talked through it, nice and steady, untying every knot along the way. Few months later the progress was breathtaking.
