Let's be abundantly clear.
IT. IS. NOT. YOUR. JOB. TO. FIX. ANYBODY.
It's not your job to fix your partner's issues. It's not your partner's job to fix your issues.
You are responsible for figuring out your own demons before entering someone's life. Someone refusing to fix you doesn't mean they don't love or care about you. It means that they love and care about themselves more WHICH IS WHAT THEY SUPPOSED TO DO.
The love you have for yourself MUST be greater than the love you have for others. Otherwise, you giving any and everybody permission to drain you of everything; energy, love, power, every single goddamn thing.
And another thing, if you know you're dealing with someone who clearly got issues, ignoring them will not do shit. Those are called "red flags" and if you ignore them, it'll do nothing but get worse.
Ask yourself this..
"If I'm allowing this person to treat me any type of way and still allowing them access to me and my life, exactly what am I doing to stop the treatment and/or protect myself from getting hurt?"
It's too many of y'all asking for advice on how to handle a nigga who shows you on a daily basis just how little of fuck he actually gives for you. It's too many of y'all willing to sacrifice your self-worth and respect for the sake of having a boyfriend.
As you navigate through life and gain more age and experience, you'll begin to see just how messed up the male population actually is and you'll realize that a majority of these niggas ain't worth a toe nail.
Most of my readers don't even have a highschool diploma but you letting a nigga stress you out. Baby, learn to put yourself first now while you still young.
YOU ARE READING
FOR MY VIRGINNSSSSS!!!
RandomThis a book full of experience and knowledge that ive gained over the course of a year since losing my virginity. Non-virgins are welcomed to give their take and input on the topics I'm about to speak on.
