I feel like we should take seriously the question: "How are you?". We usually use it to start a conversation, just because we want something from the other person and we don't know how to ask it , maybe because we're scared of their reaction, and while asking that question the strangest thing is that we don't even care about the feelings of the other. We ask it like it's guaranteed that , that person feels good or everything's "alright ". We expect that a person answers that she/him/they feel/s good, but we don't usually expect an answer were is wrote something like: "Owh, I'm pretty sad" or "Everything's a mess right now". We're a fixed mindset people even if we think we're not, and yet, we prove it when we do things like this.
I think we should all take some time to check(at least) if our closest friends are alright, because sometimes they may need some help with something or may need someone to talk to but they are scared or afraid to ask you if you are available to talk about something. I am that tipe of person that keeps all his problems inside of me and then when I just can't take another bad thing, or another sh*t, I just explode like a vulcano of emotions. I think that's the worst thing to do, indeed I started to talk to my friends if something bad happened, and they always answered me and gave me advices. I think that's nothing wrong with asking for help, and not only in this case, but also if you don't understand something and you need someone to explain you a subject for school.
If you don't have anyone to talk to, or you just don't want to talk to your friends because you're afraid of them judging you, my Instagram dms are always open, you only need to write me a message to my main Instagram account: miky.http.
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Hi! My name is Michele and I'm 15.
I live in Italy so I want to apologize if you find some mistakes while reading. Correct me if you want, so I can learn from my mistakes!
Hope you'll keep reading while I post all my thoughts.
Bye🦋🍂🍁
