THE GIRL WHO WAS SLUT SHAMED

MY PERSONNEL THOUGHTS AND VIEWS ABOUT SLUT SHAMING

The society we live in today has multiple double standered by both men and women, yes even men which i will be talking about in some other chapter as my main aim of this chapter is express my thoughts and thinking about slut shaming. 

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i simply dont know from where to start so anyways lets try:

have you ever noticed that a girl having multiple partners orwho has slept with many men being called a slut or a whore (i know its obvious but still) but have you seen a man who had slept with multiple women being called these kind of terms well i some cases they do if the people there have a equal mindset, but most of the times guys are praised or are pride of. If the nudes of girl gets leaked the entire school/college/workplace labels the girl as slut without knowing the other half of the pov (POINT OF VIEW) they simply accuse the girl, although some times it can be the girl who sends off the nudes without asking but thats completely different things what i m trying to say is that people often tend to look from their own perspective rather than finding out what the real situation was and thus the girl gets shaming from all around.  

There is a term called promiscuous meaning having or involving many sexual partners : not restricted to one sexual partner or few sexual partners. this term is generally used for males and females both but more oftenly for females. And dosent everyone ones their sexuality or it is only the males who have theright to choose their sexuality? A man/boy having slept with multiple women is a stud or player as mentioned earlier but a women/girl having slept with multiple man is termed as slut/whore. Can somone please explain why i myself dont the answer to this one.

I am not saying that i m a feminist or something but this thing bothered me for quite a long time. Womens are judged everyday on the basis of their clothes, appearence etc etc, but why dosent the same go for the other gender as well. In many other wattpad stories itself i have read that the girl having an affair with bad boy is being called slut or whore but when the boy makes an appearence his been termed as stud, if a girl attracts more boys shes called a flirt, but if a boy attracts many girl he has been dotted. Platforms like wattpad with such content written in them motivates others to do the same or repeat the same words for the respective gender, although there are some stories too where the girl is being called a heartbreaker or a player as well but those are quite few cause the epitome of being a player is specially reserved for guys.

A girl wearing red lipsticks, highwaisted jeans and dresses or any other stuff are quickly taken into consideration as she is being dressed for impressing a man or for her boyfriend but that simply isnt the case always she have worn it for several other reasons like its her athestic or she loves to feel good about her ownself and make her feel confident but nah most the people go with the first one. 

i even feel a bit sentimental towards the term boss bitch or bad bitch cause a bitch mean a female dog and the adding the word bose or bitch in front of it makes it seem like a female dog boss or a female bad dog, aint i right? do you all agree with me? although those terms are generally used as a compliment but i dont think the word bitch is the correct word for it and boss or bad bitch dosent always mean a girl showing off her boobs,asses or are simply twerking but according to google and other wise or intellectual people the word defines itself as:-

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so i think now you can get the idea or some people might even the know about it before hand.

Womens are often judged by the lenght of their dresses as mentioned above for example i found a picture on the internet 

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isnt these two pictures showing contrast right? Men typically the bad boy types where full lenght clothes and gold chains hanging around necks and bracelets and rings all those tattoed up biceps and triceps, just a typical assumption for bad boy but what does the picture of bad girl bring to our mind hmm....... a girl wearing shorts, bralettes and is just basically half naked right? although different people have different thinking but this is the general assumption made about bad girls right, although due to some songs( i cant write the song name for copyright purposes) and trends and fashionista type like e-girl or emo-girl are up to many extent changing our idea and perspective of the same to which i am quite happy personally but at the same time there are songs sorry millions and zillion of songs showing girls wearing few articles of clothing.

I completely understand that every person has the right to dress up the way he/she wants so why this type of judgement/fake assumption is being made? a girl has all the right to wear the type of clothes she feels like but the society dosent seem to like it so you know what happens (slut shaming etc). 

and i wanted to share this article to you guys do check it out: https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/teenage-girl-told-man-following-16584163

I know that this small talk wont affect our society much i will contribute to rise the awareness as much as possible with the help of my audience.