Ever since I was a teenager, I knew I wanted to be a dad. Now in my 40s, as a blended family dad with one bio child and one bonus child, my ex-wife is trying to make my life hell. And thanks to a broken system, lazy judges, cynical lawyers and a bias against dads, I find myself disgruntled and on the edge of giving up. Maybe this is why so many dads get the Deadbeat Dad label.