LIFE AS YOU SEE IT

6.YOU MATTER!!

Hey there, you know what let's talk. Let's just talk about that moment when you could not just say anything. Let's just talk about what really it is. Let's just talk of that moment when something is just killing you from inside. You don't know what it is or maybe you know but you just can't say. Let's talk about something you really want to speak up but you just can't because you feel that you will be misunderstood. Because you can't afford to lose the person you really love. You are afraid! Afraid of that misunderstanding.......afraid of that misunderstood walls that could build up between you and your loved one because of opening up about what's killing you inside. You know you won't lose the person physically but you are afraid of those emotional walls that could build up and you are afraid of what could go wrong and you both could drift apart. I know you are at that moment when it's stuck on your throat but you just choose to keep quite because you can't take misunderstandings anymore. I know you want to open up. I know you want to tear apart but you are afraid of hurting your loved ones with your words, you are afraid of being misunderstood by the only one you want to be the best understood. Let's just talk, I know you want to break this wall of silence but you are afraid of another wall of misunderstandings that could come up which could get harder to handle. I know you need attention, you need someone to understand, I know you need someone who doesn't judge you. I know you need one of those tightest hugs; I know you believe in soulful and passionate love and not in fake love. I know you are just waiting, waiting for the time to get back alone in the darkest room and tear apart. I know you just want to break down but you are scared, scared of the numbness that you will face after crying. I know you are being misunderstood every time you try to speak up. Hence you choose to keep silent and smile. I know......know It.!!

Let's just talk about what you want and what actually you get. It's not just something you want but that's something you deserve right? I know you gave your best and you never expected so much but you just wanted to be understood by the one who misunderstands you. I know you are scared of sharing your insecurities, your thoughts because maybe the other one doesn't understands you but you know what that understanding is the thing which you deserve because where you gave your best to keep them in your life you deserve to be understood. I know you gave your best and your loved one is with you he/she is happy but what about you, what about your happiness. Don't you think now it's their responsibility to give their best to keep you in their life but when you invest a lot of yourself in someone they just forget about their role and forget to give that care, love and what happens because of that investment you just lose yourself and when you start speaking up about your thoughts you are being misunderstood and that's where you just start ignoring what you want and take just what you get. I know!!

Let me tell you something. No one can love you as much as you can, no one can understand you as much as you can, and no one can complete your expectations except you. We should never invest ourselves in someone so much that we lose our importance in front of them instead invest in yourself, give time to know yourself because it's just about you and when you think of yourself you will be the happiest because one can never really love oneself when they are caught in the need to get love from someone to prove that they are worthy of love. The truth is that love is an unending force within you. Fulfillment is achieved when one stops chasing phantoms, when one realizes that love is not something to get, it is something to give.

When one realizes that they don't need anything or anyone to be complete and fulfilled in the experience of life then everything else is an added sweetness. Friends, lovers, family, achievements are all boons. They are the beautiful petals of our unfolding life, the taste of sugar within the fruit, the different colors of rainbow which give different meanings to our life. They are gifts and not possessions then why to get stressed over someone or some situations, if it's not adding sweetness in your happy life then just move on because if someone is not adding colors in your life instead making you stressed over it then it's no use of them being in your life.

RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT POSSESSIONS. IF IT'S NOT ADDING COLOURS IN YOUR LIFE THEN YOU SHOULD WALK AWAY.
THE SILENCE YOU KEEP IS THE SILENCE YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT.

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After a long break I'm again here with my thoughts.
I would like to thank graciearya18 for suggesting the title and selecting the picture.
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