LIFE AS YOU SEE IT

3. IMPORTANCE OF LIFE PART 2

In the previous chapter as we spoke about the importance of life in this chapter we continue on how people in our lives makes it more important...!!

We all are surrounded by different persons in our life and every day we come across so many people. We communicate with few, some become our friends and some are left behind. Different people have different places in our life according to their presence, their place is determined by their presence in our life. Like, some people live far away from us but still we don't talk to them or if we are unable to meet them we know they will never leave us, there's a kind of satisfaction in our heart that these people are always by our side no matter what and on the other side there are some people for whom if you are available always but still you don't matter to them, they will go away at some point and they don't care if you need them, they will do what they want. Mostly we are surrounded by family members and relatives all the time and of course they are those people who are very close to us and on the other side we have friends who are considered as family we choose ourselves. Few are close to their friends and some to their family, well that's fine to whoever you are close because individually if we see all have different place in our life. Our behaviour towards people around us defines our nature, thinking and our way of living. It does not matter however close you are to your people their way of living will always differentiate from yours because you cannot adapt someone's habit. People's behaviour towards you defines that what they think about you. We think that those people who are important to us we are also important to them but it's not the truth, they must be at the top of our priority list but on the other side in their priority list we are at the last or maybe we are not even there, there are very few people who give importance to us same as we give to them and if you have someone like this don't ever lose them because they are the ones who will never leave you in any situation no matter what it is. Somewhere in life every one of us wants to be someone's first choice always and being someone's first choice is really a blessed feeling no matter who it is whether your parents, siblings, friends or maybe anyone else, because in their life you will always have a special place in their heart and that's really amazing when someone cares for you and stands by your side always no matter what you do they will never judge, you will always feel free with them and that's all someone needs to be happy.

If you want to be in someone's life you need to understand people and their feelings. Understand their frustrations, irritations and make them feel that no matter what it is whether the sad part or the happiest one they can come to you anytime because people always search for that one person who will understand them, listen to them and who can feel them. Just try to be there for them whenever they need you and just remember that some day in life each and every person in your life will realise that what you have done for them. You will feel so satisfied...trust me.

Life is considered to be handled patiently but sometimes what happens due to regular problems and disappointments in life we become frustrated and we come to that part of our lives there whatever we do or we think the first thing that comes in our mind is its negative aspects and that negative aspect comes from our past experiences but if we take these disappointments as our lessons will become a little positive about our life.

This is all about struggle, disappointments, people but between them don't forget to find yourself and that you will be the real happiness of your life. Happiness is within you and when you're happy you're in peace and then all the problems stops effecting you.

THE REAL LIFE IS ALL ABOUT YOU AND ONLY YOU . BE HAPPY.