the guy who didn't like musicals, black Friday (the hachetfeild universe, starkid). This is more my theory on who his mystery husband is, but he is a very well written character as well. While he plays a much larger and more heroic role in black Friday than TGWDLM, I think he will be found in the black and white during the upcoming finale of the hatchetfield trilogy nerdy prudes must die. During black Friday just before he is sent into the black and white, he performs a monologue that was cut short due to timing reasons however he talks about his husband who we never find out the identity of (so far). I think it was McNamara's old mentor Wilbur Cross who went insane and disappeared into the Black and White 13 years prior to the events of Black Friday. I also think Wilbur Cross and Uncle Wiley are the same person due to the military dog tag that Uncle Wiley wears (update this was confirmed in nightmare time episode 3 so 10 point to Hufflepuff I guess). It is made clear the Wiley and McNamara know each other and are on a first name basis.