self care 101

self care 3.

rule number 3.

learn to be okay with being alone

there will be times in life where you try to look left and right , up and down

but no one is there apart from you

so you need to learn how to cope with just yourself and how to deal with difficult situations without relying on people to be there for you

Don't put 100% trust and faith into someone , people change every day

The only person you should trust 100% is yourself , trust yourself with surviving the struggles ALONE

Now this doesn't mean ignore everyone etc , it means yes still speak to people and be close or whatever but never ever ever make them someone who you depend on ALL THE TIME

As you can see everyday more and more people are getting to know the real version of people they're close with ...... it isn't pretty

All I'm saying is have your own back , rely and depend on only yourself therefore you won't be disappointed when someone does wrong to you

You know why?

Because you would've saw it coming a long time ago but you were so dependant on yourself that it doesn't affect nor hurt you