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Realization

Hello everyone,

So as years pass by I have been realizing a few things; and yes... most of them from sayings I have read that are soo true. You know? The worst thing in life is not being alone NO, it is being with someone that makes you feel alone, unimportant, unappreciated.

Being lied to constantly also is one of the worst things as well. So while I'm really not trying to say: "Hey, everyone is the same, trust no one", No because I do believe there are still good people out there, truly good people with good intentions, people whom will want to be with you no matter who you are.... most people are fakers so yes, be careful.

As for me, I have mostly been lied to in love. See the thing is, sometimes we believe we found that perfect someone, that someone that sees you for you even when they haven't met you in person. Someone that makes you feel special, wanted, beautiful, smart, loved in a short period of time. BE CAREFUL...

Because the truth is, when they decide they were going to fast and act like they never had those "feelings" for you, that "Love" for you in the first place... don't know about you but seems pretty fishy to me. And while I do understand that different people do things in different ways because they think its the right thing... I just can't understand how.... I mean maybe it is because us super sensible people love with everything, we will do anything and risk everything for the person we love... I just don't know.

And so I realized that the worst is never to stay alone no. Please take time alone, heal your heartbreak, learn from past mistakes and understand that other than God and your parents or family members (and I'm talking here about true loving people u consider your parents or family) you need to love your self because most people wont truly love you. Most people in this world are friends with you because they gain something from it. Genuine love, genuine friendship? Thats very and I mean VERY hard to find but if you find it, treasure it please.

Embark on this journey to learn about yourself. Learn to see the beauty within you, not just physical but emotional, mental, spiritual, and all that its you. Take a deeper look into yourself and try to make better things you have not done right in the past, try to become a better person, the best version of yourself you could be, for you. Because while I understand its scary sometimes to think you wont leave a mark in the world or you will be forgotten, I promise you, there is always someone you leave a mark on, and you decide if its going to be a good one or a bad one, I suggest a good one.

Life is just one so live it for God, for you, for the ones you love, please love yourself. Because the love we give to others sometimes we forget to give to ourselves. Talk to you tenderly, lovingly, and listen, once we learn how to live life this way, we will understand that happiness has always been a choice of ours. We don't need no one to make us happy. We don't have to give that power to anyone to either make us or destroy us.

Then when we feel complete within God and ourselves, we might let other people in, heck we might even find someone that truly loves us but always, always remember to never become dependent on that. For if someone comes into our life it wont neither add nor takeaway. Because we were complete before that person came to our lives. And it is also our choice if we let them in or not.

Until then, take care of yourself, do what makes you happy. Love what you do. Admire yourself even when you are broken, because you are strong, and never feel stupid for truly loving someone, for it shows even when you are hurting you are still capable of loving and that my love, that's true beauty.