Most of us know the quote, "Experience is the Best Teacher". At a young age, some of us wanted to dive in and gamble our hearts in this dangerous game of love. It is never wrong to seek for an advice.
By this, it means that you should approach the proper person you can help you answer your questions. Here are some factors you need to consider.
1. A young married couple
By the moment we decided to date and we wanted to be serious about it, we should put into consideration that time might come that you will marry your significant other. Why date if you can't marry? They say. It may not be the same case to others, but if you want a long lasting relationship, better have a talk with these guys. Most of the might have a dramatic love story to tell where you can learn a lot. They have been there.
If you are not comfortable with your parents (which is also a very good idea because they are important people in your life), you can look for a couple who lives by the example of a good marriage.
2. Single Parents / Divorced
We cannot judge these people just because of their social status, most of them bear the most sacrifice that worth knowing. Some couples did not end well because of attitude problems or unforeseen events. We can learn decision-making, patience, forgiveness and endurance from them.
3. Grandparents
Who would not love unending talks with a lovely old soul? They have far more wisdom than us. Try it, you'll loved it.
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I did make a big mistake from my fifth grade up until my second year in high school. I have kept my relationships a secret and only lean on to my friends for advice and help.
Who would even dare sharing that a fifth grader is already inlove to judgemental adult eyes? They said a multiple times during meals that if I get caught in a relationship, they would take all of my privileges from me. Children do have strong sense of justice according to Ruth Chang. It would not be fair for me because I worked hard to get a phone, then they would just take it.
After defending my behaviour for years, I just learned just now, after being married, that parents love to hear from their children.
I got wrong advices, I make decisions based on my emotions, that it why most of my relationship failed.
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What about you? If want to add someone on my list just leave a comment. See yah! 😁
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12 Things I Learned About Dating
NonfiksiI am newly wed but before my happy ever after, I have been to 12 relationships. I want to share how everything went with each failed relationship
