Home. A familiar abode to reap the harvest of good luck, hard work and financial stability. A space of personal growth and above all fit for settling down with family. A symbol that we are 'all right' in the larger scheme of things, safe in the comfort of loved ones.
Two cinematic works that I watched this weekend attest to another crucial fact that home isn't always a permanent concept or overarching theme of our lives. Those on the move, looking for greener pastures for future prospects, have to find that idea of a home in places far removed from the comfortable cocoon of that familiar space many of us often take for granted. Family units have to find that reserve to adapt, change, leave behind beloved family and friends and condition a deep sense of loss to make sense of a transformation motivated by factors beyond our control.
As is obvious, children bear the brunt of these changes and yet find in them a portal to store memories anew, memories made anew in the place they settle down in and memories of the sanctuaries they leave behind. We must remember Disney's heartwarming INSIDE OUT that utilized the magic of animation to portray precisely these emotions on the part of a young girl, unable to cope with her move to another city with her parents. It's a tightrope walk for a collective unit and nobody is the more wiser one to that realization as compared to the other.
Sacrifices and a desire to make a period of transition successful is hence at the heart of this human migration that army kids and those with parents bearing transferable jobs know all too well. Or those in boarding schools. Even adults who leave their own cities and towns for better working opportunities can easily attest to that.
The children's perspective in both examples given here point out at the poignancy of growing up, within an age group where there is hardly any secure answer to life's myths and idiosyncrasies in the first place. It's a journey tinged with self-discovery.
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