do you ever feel neglected by your own lover? its like, you're only there to be his sidechick or something, while he goes off and dates others [he's polyamourous], and barely ever messages you anymore, and is usually just upset when with you so he tells you he feels like you don't love him anymore, which makes it very obvious he cannot tell at all when you aren't doing okay mentally. he doesn't notice at allthe way you have been talking to him through text has been very proper, very dead and blank and blunt. and he never notices whenever you vent about stuff. is that normal, or not?
