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When You Wish Upon A Throuple, The Takeaway

*Trigger Warning: Abused Spouse*

Here's the deal friends. While it appears that Dvm has an amazing life, the truth slowly came out. 

The journey to throuplehood when Dvm's wife and high school sweetheart began to explore repressed bisexual tendencies in college. It started with wife seeing women and then the threesomes ensued. Eventually, they found who I call wife2.0. Wife started seeing wife2.0 and after awhile, they invited Dvm to join them. Wife 2.0 quickly moved in and became pregnant. In his own words, "my pull out game is weak". 

So, 3 adults, 3 kids, and fun and interesting sex and relationships. Seems awesome...

The Truth: 

Wife isn't bisexual. She is a lesbian who was raised in small town Missouri. 

Wife and wife2.0 are a couple. They share a bed and have sequestered Dvm to the basement. He is a full two floors away from them. There have been no threesomes for about a year as of this writing. He has not had sex with either of them in months. His house btw.

Wife2.0 stays home with the boys and the oldest one, a girl, goes to preschool. When Dvm returns from working and running a clinic, he is expected to do bedtime with the kids. What the wives are doing during this time, I have no idea. Wife 2.0 is no longer interested in nursing baby so bedtime is drawn out with him. When the kids are sick or sad, they don't want their moms, they want Dvm.

When Dvm hung out with my friends and I, the wives were texting constantly. He could barely interact for more than a few minutes at a time. As he become intoxicated, they started to lose their shit. 

They initially approved his need of a girlfriend just for him. When he actually sent time with me, they quickly pulled that approval. Even though they continued to have a relationship without including Dvm.

Dvm is an abused spouse. He is neglected, used, gaslighted, and deprived of his needs. On the outside, he holds a brave face and sings the praises of his situation. He even had me convinced.

I was lucky enough to get to see behind the brave face. 

Dvm gives everything. He loves them unconditionally. He is one fo the most involved fathers I have ever met. He is respectful to their needs and emotions. He is given nothing in return. The wives are emotionally tied to each other. There is no one for Dvm to talk about his wins, fears, trepidation, or anything else with. He does not feel comfortable opening up about things to them. He has no outlet. 

Every human has sexual needs. Dvm's sexual needs are simply ignored. I don't know what the wive's sex life with each other looks like. I do know that they share a bed, so the opportunity is there daily. Dvm doesn't even feel comfortable asking for his needs to be met, so he goes without. 

As of this writing, he plans to bring the issue of having a girlfriend up again.

The moral of this is, when something seems amazing, look deeper. Ask questions. Help someone advocate for themselves. I have found that the eyes never lie. The face may light up when talking about something, but the eyes are sad.