Finding Me

opinions what can i say they change

I know I'm gonna get a lot of controversy about this chapter but maybe it will get you guys rallied up enough to comment and stuff.

I got told the other day that I was stupid cause I don't believe you should be having sex with someone you don't love and you should be positive they love u too.

hence I believe in no sex before marriage I don't even believe in sexual contact.

there has been surveys that prove that most relationships that began with sex wound up having miserable marriages.

now I don't wanna get into a debate and get kicked off of wattpad.

but girls you need to be educated on this. if you wanna wait till marriage and he doesn't respect that then you need not be with him.

now I don't fully blame you your teens your hormones are every where.

but you need to know most people who have sex before marriage regret it.

and I know right now you significant others are talking about "I love u" but and I can not stress this enough just cause you say it doesn't mean you meant it trust me as you've read so far I love you isn't always the truth.

and what's with virgins not being any fun just cause we aren't laying down with anyone that douse not make us no fun.

sex is something you share with someone you love and your forever tied to that person physically and mentally.

just think about it is the person your with someone you forever wanna be tied to no matter what.

ask yourself"do I see my self marrying him one day" before you start getting down in the dirt.

and u need to consider is he truly gonna stay after he gets what he wants.

douse he really care honestly.

do you really care.

and don't think that oh I lost my virginity to him but he makes me miserable. but I can't leave him cause no one else will want me cause I'm not a virgin anymore.

that's so wrong

and I'm not trying to contradict myself you will always remember your first.
its just sometimes its best to let them go and remember the good times you know.

though you will always remember him sometimes its better to say goodbye then to continue on being miserable.

just think about it please just cause you don't believe in sex before marriage doesn't mean your gonna die alone more guys wanna be with virgins then not cause who knows ask a guy why but just please if I change one person in my life its an accomplishment.
and always remember there's a lot of virgins out there.

so stop acting like its such a bad thing to be a virgin.

and writers stop writing about "oh i cant believe I'm a virgin much to my dismay.

like for real people its not bad being a virgin.

so stop acting like it is.

and don't give me that whole its a stress reliever bs.

so is just sleeping in the same bed with the person you love. proven fact.

so girls and guys save your v cards. don't just swipe them at the first ATM you can find.