People are not perfect
That is true, that is why we always expect the worst in others.
When people are kind, they're fake.
They should do something wrong or they should show their hideous side to be called "real".
But what if, the person is genuinely patient?
Genuinely understanding?
Genuinely kind?
Why do they get those undeserved hate?
Of course they should, that's not them, right? They are fake, they are just playing safe.
I always thought that it's always like that
That made me more cautious and judged those perfectly good people.
They smile. Fake.
Greets you. Fake.
Listen to your problems intently. Fake.
Donates to charity. Fake
Helps without an exchange. Fake.
Unbiased. Fake.
Rude. Real.
Yes, people have their bad side, but why should we expect that? Why should we seek that if they put all of their efforts in trying to be good. Just because you can't see flaws, they are not genuine anymore.
It's okay to be cautious, it's nice to be aware. This world is full of shitty people, but we shouldn't forget the people who just wants to be good, who just wants to make this world better.
True colors are showing what we really are. Being mean and rude is not one of them. Do not misuse it.
Our negative personality is not us, it's just an emotion, a part of us, expression.
Don't normalize people who are rude and says "I'm just being real" or "at least I'm not fake". I've met people who are nice, who are great, who are not fake.
'Being real' does not change the fact that you are an ill-mannered and an unpleasant person. Knowing you did something wrong and tries to change it rather than giving an excuse is upright, otherwise, then it's just pathetic.
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♡ caza4raia
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