Random things

Q & A

A/N: So a while ago (like 2 and a half months ago) I asked my followers to send in questions for me to answer and I got a few back but still haven't answered them... So that is this now. Sorry it took so long!

If anyone has anymore questions for me feel free to leave them in the comments and I will do another one of these at some point!  

1Q: What qualities are you looking for in your future husband?

1A: First of all someone who is a man of God and will be able to guide me and our family (and also let me guide him and the family) in faith repetitively and also help me to keep God at the center of our relationship (and family). Second, someone who can be honest and open with me (and the children) about what they want for the future and present and also about their past through their emotions (can't stand a guy who wont express his emotions), words, and actions. Someone who shares the same dreams and passions so that our lifestyles can match up leading us to be able to work well together.  But that we aren't exactly the same in opinions and personality's just that they work well together. and lastly, someone who is kinder than necessary to anyone and everyone, person, place, or thing. 

That's all I can think of right now! What are your guys thoughts? 

2Q: What triggers you?

2A: The first thing I thought of is people that are not nice to those with struggles (I hate calling them disability's or illnesses) and call them a problem, difunctional, or anything else unkind. I grew up in a family surrounded by love towards people that need a little extra help at times so it's really triggering to me when people are not. I can go more in depth on that if y'all want... got plenty to say on that. 

Another thing would be loud noises... can't stand them. I have a pair of noise cancelling headphones that I'll use at times cuz if I don't it does not go well...

I hope I answered that in the way you were hopping let me know if I didn't. 

3Q: Have you ever been in a situation that was hopeless? And how did you get out of it?

3A: Yes I have. I can think of the time when I lost my grandparents... I found my way out of that by family and friends. Just recently I found myself in a pretty hapless spot when I didn't know what God wanted from me and it was really hard. How I found my way out of that was Christian mentors of mine, praying, and doing my best to focus on the good things in my life that God gave me, not trying to brace for disappointment all the time, and not worrying about what the future holds for me. He is in charge of that (the future) and I had to let go of trying to control it and make it my way bc His way will always be better. 

  

Thank you to @FictionFanTeen, @Writerdude508, and @themysticalqueen for your questions! I hope I answered what you were asking well let me know if I didn't please. 

Written, edited, and posted on 11-14-21