Love Never Fails BUT We Fail In Love

Chapter 03 || Importance & After Effects

There is an all-time popular line that surfs around the social world: "If it is important to you, you will find a way; if it is not, then you'll find an excuse." The sentence looks very generous, but the deepest meaning is all that the sentence stands for. All we do in our 24-hour daily lives is diversify our tasks based on their importance and value in our lives.

Some people prioritize their daily routine of morning walk, coffee or tea, while others do some reading, etc. We all just divide our 24-hour schedule into various scales based on importance. That's how we are all different from each other because our lists of giving importance are different. Some people prioritize having six packs, while others prefer lean body, some prefer long hair but some read dozens of books per year. All outcomes result from the variation of the task we do for ourselves or the variation of our need for importance that we place on our daily schedule.

My partner-in crime WhatANewWorld always says that "Importance is the value you give to anything. It doesn't matter if it is an object, a person or a service. When something is important, it usually is because it is the result of our hard work, or maybe because it is related to memories, such as birthday gifts. However, a person is important when you value them for how they are, when you love them." She said it in a great wider perspective, smarty as always.

Every human being is a social creature who is bound to society. Whether it is directly or indirectly, it always connects us with society and its members. We humans started learning from our childhood the value of importance and how to deal with it because childhood was an easy phase to learn it. But later on, when we grow older, we forget the concept of importance and fail to balance it with the relationship we have with society or our life partner.

Remember? When you were a kid and you were hungry, did you ask your mother, father, or whoever was around you for food? Of course, you did, right? You politely asked or hinted at them for food, but they were busy with their daily tasks, so you began to cry to attract their attention, and they must have run to you. Because they knew it was feeding time, your feeding was more important to them than their daily tasks. Because a feed can't wait, especially when it's for babies. Slowly, we grew up and learned how to ask them for poop and pee. That was the most important task for our parents. They left all other tasks behind but assisted us with going to the poop or peeing. Why so? Why did they listen to us so quickly while we were calling for poop or pee? Other times, they were making our calls on hold but not for our natural calls. Why so? The answer is very simple: just for "importance." Because poop and pee for a baby are unavoidable. That means they were aware of the result, so they gave us importance because they wanted the desired aftereffects result.

One of my forum friends, rosela_rj7 explained about importance as "Importance can be applied to your value hierarchy or urgency or even influence. Like tomorrow is your exam and the day after is your mom's birthday now what's your importance right now? The stuff we learn at school holds 'importance', coz there were people who discovered those notable things creating an influence for people all over the world." She explained beautifully the relatable facts of importance.

Sometimes we have two or more options to choose from, and we get confused about which one to choose. But the smarter people choose the option based on its importance. Some failed to calculate the importance and chose the wrong one, and they ruining their entire lives. Sometimes they go with random option without thinking about the aftereffects, which is why they fail. I know some of us put off tasks and spend time on other things, but we always regret it later. We question ourselves, why did we do that again? And at the end of the time limit, we try to finish it as more as possible in the perfect way. But everyone can't focus that well. Some do their best, even in the worst situations, because they give their 100% focus with importance to the pending tasks and they always win. But keep in mind that not all of us are that focused during the end times. Only a few people with photogenic memories can do that perfectly. Even at the last moment, only they finish their task at the perfect level.