Love Never Fails BUT We Fail In Love

Epilogue

"Love never fails but we fail in love." It was not just a tag line but it became the formula for having a successful love life for everyone around the world. After getting the discussions with many people about this concept, we can say with certainty that love never dies naturally, but that we are the ones who kill it. Love is so fragile in nature, every actions even its minor or major affects the feelings between lovers too deep, which ultimately can grow positively or negatively for sure. That impact makes a stronger or weaker bond between the lovers which tag as failure sometime. And after that failure we starts to blame 'love' or 'our partner' solely but in reality, we are the one who didn't attempt to make our bond stronger. We could have change it into the positive feeling but we were blaming to love, but we know the reality we killed it. Because, 'love never fails, but we fail in love.'

We, as human beings, are urged to have good and true love in our lives. Maybe some are misanthropes, but apart from them, we are all in search of true love and we try hard to balance our love life with our everyday actions. But sometimes we fail miserably, and then we start to blame love and its fragile nature. As it is our nature as human beings, we try to find a solution to the problems in our lives. We find it in scientific measurements and in natural ways, but we humans never settle for less. We try harder every time to get the best result to comply with our wishes. But unfortunately, in the case of failed love, we blame our partner rather than ourselves. We never try to change ourselves; we never try to observe our actions towards our partner, but we blame them easily. Each time after a while of breakup, we again start the new journey of love with a new person, but we fail there too, because the main reason for our failure is us, not them. We go to the new lover with the same old actions, treatment, and attitude, and it is universally true that love will not stay with us unless we change our actions, because 'love never fails, but we fail in love.'

Recently, there has been a big buzz being viral around the social world, which says stuffs about the guy from North Dakota and his search for love. Who decided to go one by one to all the states to find a good date and future love for him. But if we deeply, with the lens of psychology, focus on his actions, we can easily say lots about his struggle for finding his love. He tried to find his love on his first date, but some love points must have been mismatched, so he moved on to the next. Again, in the second search, he wasn't satisfied, so he moved to the next and so on till he had dated 50 girls from 50 states within six and a half months. He had a physical connection with some, but it failed after a day or two and he moved on to the next girl. But the million-dollar question is: what was he looking for? What was he expected to have? Some of the girls had features he was looking for, like, tall, slim, great upper body, great curves, blonde, white, black, rich, successful, smart, sexy, dancer, singer, sports person, cute, blue eyes, hazel eyes, and so on. But still, why was he failing to find the perfect one for him? What his heart was asking for? Why wasn't he satisfied with any girl? And even after finishing the journey of fifty dates, why was he still not satisfied? And again, he is on his second journey of finding love for himself. Was his love really failing every time? But we know the ground now that his love was not failing, he was failing because, "Love never fails, but we fail in love."

We are human being and we act as our nature, searching for more is our nature. We never remain happy with what we have, unless we control our hunger for more. That is why we look for more. And that is the main reason for the failure of love. If we continue search for options, while we already have one with us, that search will never going to stop. And the one we have with us will leave us again and again, and we will fail in love each time. Taking love for granted is the reason of failure, we kill our love life intentionally or unintentionally, because we know, "Love never fails, but we fail in love."

As mentioned in chapter one, we will feel a lack of care if attention is divided among others. Or, if we care less about our partner, they will undoubtedly feel the same way, and our love percentage will eventually fall to zero, and we will fail in our love. When we are in love, expressions of respect and importance are also vital; if you fail to balance those feelings, breakup will come knocking sooner or later. As mentioned in chapters four and five, support and trust are the pillars of any relationship. It can't exist if there is a lack of those in any love life. The intention of being in love matters most. If you are just for a one-night stand, or for a date, or for a semester love (which happens in college), or for a really long love for forever, whatever the reason may be to have the actions of a lover, it will decide the lasting of your love only by mutual respect. If one of you is looking for a seasonal love while the other is looking for a forever bond, the broken heart is waiting for you to announce the event. Whenever goal doesn't match between lovers, they leave each to search or have a new partner for them. And we start to blame to our love for the failure else now we know that we were the reason. Because we know now, "Love never fails, but we fail in love."