My BDSM

Bdsm - our lifetsyle

Not even gonna address how long I've been away for...

Depending on what type of bdsm relationship u are in or exploring there are different sets of rules a dom/sub would agree on and here are some ideas

* sub may not speak until spoken to
* sub will only address dom by pre set names
* dom will ALWAYS respect safe word
* aftercare for both dom and sub is a must
* some couples wish to settle on certain positions in which the sub must get into when the dom commands
* dom must always open the door for sub
* sub must have themselves mentally and physically healthy before play
* sub will make their body available to use at doms will
* thank you and other praises are courtesy for a sub to say
* sub will not orgasm unless instructed by dom
* sub must always communicate wether they are uncomfortable ect
* sub will not date or have sex with anyone other than dom unless discussed previously and same goes for dom

Honestly I could go on forever but these are just some personal things I've done during a bdsm relationship. Drop some of your favourite rules here

To finish off this update I wanted to tell y'all a funny story! Last week my dom and I were having intercourse after a threesome and once it was over I got off and realised the condom was gone. Now I was very drunk so i thought it definitely could be possible that I forgot to put it on daddy but then I reached inside me and realised where it was. Yeah so morning after pill was required because that condom was definitely ineffective. Took me ten mins to dig it out soooo

Thank you everyone see you soon xx