I really don't remember how this all went but I think when I first started I kinda wanted to be a dom as that was what I kinda was like in a vanilla relationship but as I moved on I realised that I loved the thrill of being a sub and having someone care for me. Now I remember when I first started looking at BDSM I thought that subs were weak and doms were more superior and strong but that is not true at all.
Subs are probably the strongest person in a sub dom relationship. As I began my first relationship as a domxsub relationship (I will talk about my first time in a few chapters) I realised I loved being on the receiving end of the toys ect. You won't know till u actually try.
Vanilla- a term I will use about relationships that are not dom and sub. This term is not saying a vanilla relationship is boring or plain.
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RandomHere are some stories and true BDSM things that I've done,, some tips, tricks and advice. Also if you want a guide on BDSM and the community, you've come to the right place! #25 domandsub #64 domsub
