Venus in a guy's chart

Venus in Cancer, Venus Conjunct Moon

One word description: Nurturing

These men tend to like individuals who are thicker, but not necessarily always someone with a fit body, like Taurus. These men like breasts and thighs.

Still, there are also those that like individuals who are super skinny and fragile-looking. Some of them really like their crush to look feminine! Not necessarily traditional all the time, but they are attracted to individuals with feminine physical features. Soft, roundish faces, soft skin, soft eyes, these men want someone who looks like a delicate flower, even if that person's dressed frumpy and/or boyish. This is the complex part. They may like someone who looks physically "feminine", but actually dresses casually and comfortably!

They are drawn to people who look capable of caring for or bearing children. In fact, pregnancy is attractive to these men!

They tend to be attracted to those sweet, neighborly types as well.

They like quiet, shy people. They kind of are attracted to individuals that make them feel really comfortable because they are shy, romantic men. These men prefer individuals who understand them and listen to them, so the more comfortable the person appears, the more they assume that individual will be comfortable enough for him to share his intimate secrets.

They don't always care if someone is domestic, despite what is the reputation of Cancer. It all depends on their home environment growing up, which is reflected by the MOON signs. However, if the person they are attracted to does know how to cook, they are sold!

They always crush on their best friends or crush on someone who has cared for them for a long time. These boys tend to crush on their teachers, nurses, doctors, baby-sitters, anyone who took the time out to pamper them and mend their spirits. Even though they have their physical ideals, they generally aren't drawn to people for physical reasons. They tend to gravitate to people for their personalities. They are more attracted to someone that feels familiar, someone with similar habits and pet peeves, rather than someone that doesn't feel close to home. They might be drawn to someone from their own cultural or national background rather than outside of it, too. When these men find out they have something in common with someone else, they just instantly connect with them. After that, they can't get them out of their heads. This depends on their MOON SIGNS as well.

They are also drawn to artistic types, especially artsy people who reach them emotionally and captivate their spirits.

They are drawn to individuals with a bloodline of beautiful people. I guess many of them figure if the family is attractive, any future kids will be too!

He's drawn to many different types of women just because he mostly loves the presence of femininity. He may even have a lot of female friends!

Physically, this guy isn't very superficial. Still, he likes the chest area. He may like someone who looks nice but still a bit casual and comfortable. Again, he likes soft or cute features like small eyes, round faces, pouty lips, smooth skin, etc. He doesn't really care about the body and can be attracted to people of various sizes. He loves underwear and pajamas (believe it or not). White and silver are colors that may catch his attention, but generally he likes understated looks. Nothing too gaudy or provocative will really catch his attention as much as it would other men. This doesn't mean he doesn't like when women show some skin, it just means he prefers not to look at too many patterns on a wardrobe or anything too diva-like. He's fine with a girl in some fitted jeans and a simple cropped top.

Cancer is a water elemental sign. Venus in Cancer men enjoy watching potential lovers splash in the waters at the beach or get rained on by a sudden rain shower. The wetter, the better! They might be drawn to individuals who enjoy water. Taking a bath is one of the most erotic things to them. Their favorite season to find a mate is Spring and Summer (especially summer) when more people are going to the beach and when a light rain shower is more fun than annoying.

Sexually, these men are looking for a partner that is modest and comfortable, but someone who goes with the flow (he is changeable, may like it gentle at times, may like it rough other times). They want someone they can hug and caress. They will only have sex with a partner they are really attracted to and really in love with. He wants sex to be really intimate. He may like for his sexual lovers to wear lingerie.

If this man asked you out, you are his sweet-heart! He may not just even see you as a passing crush, but he may really want to commit to you! He may see himself spending the rest of his life with you. You are a serious potential for a girlfriend! Unlike most men, he thinks about long-term commitment. He's too jealous, clingy, and intimate not to expect to keep a girl all to himself.

How do I know he likes me? He's shy, so don't look for obvious signs. He may ask you when your birthday is and try to get you something nice. He may try to be nice to your family or he'll invite you to his house and introduce you to his family as a "friend". He will spend a lot of time with you. A LOT of time with you. He may also get jealous when you're around other men. He may go along with whatever you want and whatever you want to do. He'll stick up for you all the time. He will share some very personal, intimate secrets with you, too. Just these little indirect things will let you know he likes you. If you want him to come out with it, you might have to either confess your own feelings first or just wait patiently until he feels ready.

TURN OFF: Telling him to grow up, treating him inferior as a man, indifferent individuals who don't know how to nurture or show care for another person, attacking his home, nationality, background, and family (in fact, don't "attack" him at all).

This man is usually ready to commit soon after he's found his crush. But there are a couple of things he'll be considering. After he's seen how caring and kind you are, he'll start wondering whether you can handle HIS emotional needs. Can you deal with his habits and his insecurities? This is definitely where Moon comes in. Generally, all men need the Moon in order to truly commit, but Venus in Cancer men can't even feel physically attracted to someone they wouldn't commit to.