Venus in a guy's chart

Venus Signs

Venus in Aries, Venus Conjunct Mars 

One word description: Fun

If the man has Venus in Aries, his ideal type is someone who has an animal sexiness. Yes, he likes his ideal type to be wild. He likes someone who is exciting, passionate, and fun. They like people who are steamy hot. That hot, fun person dancing at the party? That person is going to be his crush. He's liking the passion. He's liking the drive. He loves the desire he sees in this person.

They want someone who is direct, someone who wants THEM. Does she have devious intentions? He doesn't mind. The thrill keeps him chasing. They really want to feel WANTED. If you want them, don't hold it in. Be upfront! He likes individuals who are decisive and know what they want.

Okay, maybe it isn't that easy. The complicated part is they do like to take the lead in love, and they do want someone who allows them to do just that sometimes. They like to be the one taking their partner out on dates, planning some of the activities, or leading the way to an adventure or new experience. At the same time, they are drawn to people that take some initiative, especially when trying to attract or seduce him. They would like their partners to be just as enthusiastic about the relationship as they are.

He wants someone who connects with his inner man. This man is more attracted to women who own up to their Mars signs, unlike most men. He really likes what a person "does". While, many men may see this as a threat, he won't. This man wants someone who is confident and knows how to work their own charms, no matter how different they are.

There are some Venus in Aries men that like sweeter and innocent types though. Aries is a sign that rules over the first hints of spring, a time of freshness and innocence. However, these men may grow impatient and bored with someone who's innocent in a reserved, shy, or inhibited way. They prefer the "carefree" type of innocence.

Many of these men are also attracted to athletic people. They often prefer thin individuals to thick individuals, but they can dig some booty, too, as long as there are curves in the right places.

These men tend to like tomboyish women. He'd be more drawn to a girl who challenges him on the basketball court than someone who sits on the sidelines watching (unless you're energetically cheering for him).

He also likes to be around original people, someone who does their own thing. He likes someone with their own mind, their own hobbies, and someone who doesn't care about social norms and etiquette. He likes people who can break some rules, maybe try something taboo.

An individual who is independent and assertive may also be attractive. These men tend to often ignore the shy person for the free-spirited and open person. They just can't help it.

They like people who are youthful. The can get into someone who doesn't mind playing laser tag for their first date. In fact, they would rather be around this person than someone who wants to go to an expensive and dull restaurant. Their date has to have some adventurous element to it at least. No worries, these men will try to find a way to spice it up.

He will be drawn to the active types, people who seem outgoing and busy. He's even attracted to strong individuals. He's not intimidated. He sort of likes it when an attractive figure gets rough with him as long as they don't try to make him feel weak.

Many of these men take individuals at "face value" (Aries ruling the head), so they are a sucker for an attractive face.

He expresses his love through sex more than the other men do, so he wants someone who isn't rigid in that way. He likes the slutty types, even if it's just behind closed doors. He loves someone with a healthy sexuality. He doesn't think that's bad! At the same time, he respects a woman who presents a challenge for him. He may not respect someone he can easily get in the bed with. Their eyes are drawn to the person that all eyes are on...though all of this depends on his MARS sign. Venus is in detriment in this sign because this sign isn't usually looking for anything serious. They are impulsive in love. Aries is ruled by Mars, the planet of war, aggression, action, and sex. Love is often tangled with sex. Love can be aggressive, active, and a battlefield for this lover. He's into people that are confrontational. He doesn't really draw himself to the Mary-Jane types. He wants someone who speaks up, someone who stands up for themselves. Maybe not towards him, but definitely towards other people. He also wants someone who's open about their feelings and not playing games.

Physically, they are drawn to muscular, healthy, fit bodies. They tend to like individuals who are thin. Aries rules the head, so, again, they tend to like attractive faces and beautiful, distinct hair. As far as clothes go, less is more! They want confident people in their lives, so show off your hot bod! Bold colors really catch their attention, especially red, but they mostly pay attention to that individual wearing all the confidence.

Being of the fire element, his favorite seasons for finding mates would be Spring (where Aries arrives by the Sun) and Summer. Not only do potential love interests show more skin and show more confidence around this time, but he's drawn to women who are "hot", literally. These men may enjoy a little sweat, whether it's because a potential love interest has been playing volleyball at the beach all day, dancing at a club, or exercising.

Sexually, they are turned on by partners that are passionate and active. They want their partners to show enthusiasm and courage in the bedroom. They like people who can let go, get a little wild, and try new things. They may be initially attracted to a sex partner that submits to them, but if the person doesn't take initiative in some way, he will grow bored.

If he asked you out, you probably came across to him as sexy and exciting, fun and challenging. You must be one hot fox!

How do I know he likes me? He'll be straight-forward about it eventually. It will be obvious. He may vocally tell you how attractive you are. If he doesn't show any signs, other factors could influence his decision not to express it.

TURN OFF: They don't like stuck-up individuals. They don't like people who follow the crowd and care too much about what other people are thinking. They like to feel like they can be themselves and have fun. They like people who want to take chances, so too many "rules" will turn them off.

After this Venus in Aries man is done watching you have fun, he may now want to observe how much more "fun" you could be. Now, he's looking to have his idea of "fun". Let's say, the fun has only begun. He wants to see if you can keep spicing up his life. There are so many amazing women out here, and trying to keep this man's interest is hard. This is when Mars comes into place. This is probably one of the main reasons Venus is considered in detriment in Aries. Mars is considered the planet opposite Venus.