Venus in a guy's chart

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in Scorpio
Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus Opposite Pluto
Venus Square Pluto

One-word description: Thrilling

These men like individuals who are different, unique, bold, and EXTREMELY sexy. I don't care how nerdy this guy is, he wants a "bad" individual and he wants to have fun. He wants someone sharp, someone who's independent. They are drawn to the loners. Yes, he likes them mean, though not always in a shallow way. Why? Because he sees it as a challenge. When he can conquer and over-power this individual, he will feel like a winner. This may seem like he's a power-hungry person. Not necessarily. He just likes someone who takes him beyond the superficiality and the boredom of the mundane world.

He's drawn to someone with an aura of mystery and intrigue, someone who is a little dangerous, cutting-edge, bold, and spunky. He ignores the cowards. He's drawn to someone who's daring and fearless! Still, he doesn't necessarily like party animals all the time. He's not completely into that glitz and glam superficial life. He's looking for someone who's ready to take life to the next level, or rather who's ready to dig deeper. He's drawn to people who are intelligent, who think deeper than most.

Some of them do like sweet-natured individuals, someone who is a little vulnerable. However, there still needs to be some mystery about them and he needs to feel like there's something challenging about them to stay interested for long.

He's drawn to those individuals that are strong-willed and powerful. Yes, he likes to be in control, but when someone controls him, he likes it a little, too. He really can't forget the one that's causing so much drama in his life. This guy often forms love-hate relationships with his crush. He wants to own this person and conquer them, but he also feels under their spell and control when he does this. And he's drawn to those who aren't easy to conquer, which could drive him to frustration. I know, this all sounds a little crazy, right? But that's what he likes. He wants to get lost in his own world with someone, and yes, do the craziest things. The fighting both infuriates him and turns him on. The emotional drama both makes him want to quit and makes him want to stay.

This man tends to be drawn to magnetic and charismatic individuals. They like people who know how to influence a crowd, individuals who are a part of something greater in life.

Venus is in detriment if you haven't noticed. These individuals aren't the most comfortable in their love relationships. They cause quite a bit of drama in their lives and in the lives of others. Their relationships always seem rocky. But again, this is what he likes, even if he doesn't realize it. He wants love to mean something. He wants a reason to have someone. The more someone rejects him, the angrier it makes him, yet he wants them more!

They do want someone who is confident, just not someone who shows off. They often like individuals they know nothing about because it keeps things interesting. If they feel they have sized you up, it would knock them off of their square when they find there is so much more to you than what meets the eye. They are drawn to layered individuals. Venus is in detriment in this sign because of the amount of drama they need in love to keep it going.

Yet, despite the fact that he's drawn to individuals that reject him, when someone wants him so badly they are willing to give up everything for him, he will not be able to resist. He's not usually into the desperate types for fear they may expect something of him or have some other ulterior motive. Still, if he feels you are sincere about wanting him deeply, this may be the most attractive quality of all!

Physically, sexy does the trick. He tends to like people in clothes that accentuate the body, maybe a little see-through, but not gaudy or too revealing. Leave something for the imagination. He likes a cutting-edge look particularly. Tease him just a little. He may also be drawn to someone who looks exciting and different, so own your own unique personal style. He's drawn to dark, sleek colors, but may also like brighter colors, like red or maroon, if the clothes are sexy. He prefers solid colors to patterns. Regardless of what you wear, however, wear a sexy attitude. Be fearless. That's more attractive than anything.

Scorpio is a water sign. They might enjoy seeing potential love interests wet in some way, whether the individual is enjoying the water on the beach or a sudden rain shower. They might enjoy hot springs or baths. They might enjoy finding mates in any season really, but Spring and Fall tend to be cooler and breezy enough for them.

Sexually, these men want a passionate affair. They may be drawn to partners that are difficult to turn on or they may be drawn to individuals with an animal magnetism and raw sexuality. They want everything you've got or nothing at all.

If this guy asks you out, you must have a very powerful presence. You are unforgettable, mesmerizing, and deep. There is nothing shallow about you. You are someone that makes him find a reason for living.

How do I know he likes me? You won't know from him telling you. He keeps his secret feelings to himself. He will never give anyone the satisfaction of knowing he's interested until he's sure you feel the same way about him. But he may stare A LOT. He may flirt a LITTLE if you approach him. He may try to get inside your head and understand you. He may stalk you, he may do a lot of research about you. Trust me, his aura will ooze his feelings even if he never says it. You will get the message if you stop to notice. You must solve the mystery of this man. Only then will you find out what he really feels. You must be willing to take the time to. Anyone who does will win his heart anyway.

TURN OFF: Shallow individuals. Boring individuals. Individuals who care too much about their appearances. Vanity is such a turn off...unless you prove you have way more to yourself than that. Socially strict, socially concerned, and gossips also irritate them. They want someone with substance over class. They aren't likely to notice you if you aren't interesting. They really want someone exciting and sexy. They really just aren't drawn to "good people". They don't like the goody-two-shoes. They want to be thrilled.

After he's done with his intense adventures with you, he's going to want to know what you're passionate about, what your desires are, and your sexual power. Mars comes into play right then and there. He may also want to know those deeper sides to you, the moments that have changed your life. Your generation will have an affect on his interest in you. Pluto is a generational planet that can last for 10 years or more in a sign.

Mars is the planet of energy, passion, drive, and sex. Pluto is simply the planet of power.