Then, I survived •| SHORT TRUE STORY

HE CHANGED

He started to change ,he found a work in our place. I thought I'd be happier but the opposite. It made me more scared if he left me . He even posted some pictures so close to his workmates. I became so insecure. He gave me NO time, he gave me self pity, he gave me problems. But he has more time with his friends and workmates. Got drunk together with his.

One day when my sister visited us, we got a family get together, I invited Romeo but he replied; "Sorry babe I'm with my workmate today, I'm busy".
I just understand it, well maybe he's just not happy anymore in our relationship.

I think he took advantage of my kindness, soft-hearted attitude. So all I did was I needed to find a man and not a boy.

I'm already tired of those lie, I'm already tired for not being me. I'm not the old me. Until one day one of our neighbors saw him with not just his workmate but with his workmate's family, his workmate lives near my house but he didn't manage to visit me even just a little time.

Our neighbor tells my mom: "my son saw Ronna's boyfriend , he's at his workmates house.

"Yes Ronna told me about that that's why he can't go with us that time", mom said

"He just saw something fishy?", Our mom's neighbor said

"And why so? What happened", my mom was curious

"Just your daughter's boyfriend, he's eating at the table with his workmates family and you know what's the worst scenario? He was sitting in front of his workmate's sister. There are lots of chairs but why would he? As a respect, he should sit far from the other girls, he even laughed with her", my neighbor got mad

"That's too bad, thank you for telling me. As a mother I don't want my daughter to be hurt and jealous, I knew her", mom was sad at the same time mad with my boyfriend

My mom tells me about it the next day. I was hurt and jealous. All I did was I just needed space, I needed happiness without jealousy and insecurities.

I tried to break up with him, I can't stand his attitude anymore. I was like those animals who always follow their boss. I am more like a dog to him.

A few months later........

I tried dating apps and websites online. I tried chatting to any foreigners, befriend them. I tried to find a man for me through online. Thought I'd be happy and I won't self- pity anymore.

One day, someone chatted at me. I looked at his profile photos and it seemed that he was not a scammer just like others who messaged me and asked for nude photos. So I replied, he's from the foreign City. ( Since I was young I dreamt of having a foreign husband in the future, maybe this will be the time )

He messaged: "Hey sweetie, how are you?", Said Andy

He seemed a nice guy, he said he's 28 years old. He looked so young.

My mom has Stage 3B breast cancer at that time and he already knew about that. He met my family and said Hi while we were video calling. He tried to help us especially my mom even if I don't ask to.

We became comfortable with each other, my English isn't fluent enough but I tried to talk to him and thanked him for what he'd done to my mom and my family.

My parents were happy, they became comfortable with Andy. They like Andy, he's so kind and we are compatible, he's funny too. We both like same things. He's a person who helped me up, who advised me and who encouraged me.

He may have different religion but I see him as we were the same because he's a good one, who is contented with what we have. I can say that he is so PERFECT.

Until one day, he told me that he will come in the Philippines. To visit me and my family. Stay for 3 days. We were getting to know each other personally. I became so happy and I even forgot about my past.

My Ex- boyfriend always messen' up with me. He don't want other guys to like me. He told me that he will change. He texted me many times. I was already moving on and started to move forward from my worst past.

A few months later, my foreigner isn't a dream anymore but it came true! I thanked God so much! He visited my parents and my sisters and he respected them.

Yes, I already fell in love with him with what he has - he has a good heart. He's not a selfish man, he respect me, he loves me not just a word but actions too.

He met my elder sister, we both have talks. Going outside with my sister. We had those happy moments and spending nights together.

He gave my mom a wig, because my mom already had her first chemotherapy and she got bald. She is so beautiful as she will always be.

We went to a Seafood restaurant, having some seafood my family likes to eat. Having a good time, spending time with my family together and visiting the airport in our place. It was so perfect, at same day we went back to the place where we first met. I'm far from my family again.

Everything was so perfect until I knew he had a secret. He told me something. Something that made me feel so jealous.

I think I'm just not so lucky to have a partner. Maybe I'm just falling in love quickly. I need to calm, I need to rest.

But before that, my Ex-boyfriend went to our house, he attempt suicide , he scratch his fist with a blade, lots of blood on the floor. My parents just called me because I was so far from them that time. They told me everything about what my ex did in front of them, but he's okay and alive and went back to his house.

To be continue👉🏻