Tinder Loving Care: A Tinder Love Story

Chapter 2: Deriontae

Okay lil mama looking real good in these pictures. "Bro it say she got a kid, do you really wanna deal with this little ass girl and her babydaddy problems?" My Nigga Ace said looking over my shoulder all in my damn business. "N!gga I got my own kids how imma discriminate?" I ain't really had the best luck with women honestly they always tryna play a real n!gga and when I don't run after them like them young heads that they used to fucking with they say I'm not they type or they just ghost a n!gga. "Okay and how old is this woman cause the young ones don't be using the sense god gave them." This nigga always wanna act like somebody father for him to not have no damn kids. "Man she is 25 and I think that's the perfect age cause she ain't too young to not have sense and she got a baby hopefully that matured her a little we will never know until I meet her." 

"We matched and she just messaged me, she is cute man imma se where this goes." Imma stay open minded cause this could be a good thing or it could end real bad but I'm willing to take a chance. "Man don't get caught up in this young ass girl the young ones ain't nothing but trouble I'm telling you now she gonna play you bro just listen to me these apps is only good for a hookup not a long term relationship." He trying to be serious but I'm older than this n!gga and he trying to give me wisdom like I don't know what I'm doing. 

~~Tinder convo~~ (I'm gonna use the fake name she used when it's Deriontae P.O.V)

Me: GoodMorning Beautiful

Aly: Hey handsome

Me: How you feeling today love?

Aly: I'm Doing okay dealing with bs on this fine morning but you making it a lil better now.

Me: What's wrong if you don't mind me asking.

Aly: Well my son's father is not the best person to have a child with and he was overly abusive verbally and physically so when I had my son 4 and a half months I got me and my son a house here and we left and now he wanna pop back up because I'm taking his ass to court so he wanna argue and be relevant to make a point I guess so I been arguing with his ass since about 8 o'clock this morning and I'm just over it so I blocked him so I don't have to deal with that anymore for the day.

Me: Well damn I'm sorry to hear that but some men just don't grow up in life and then have kids that they are not mature enough to raise because they didn't have the right father figure to instill the right qualities of a man in them. But I'm most sorry that he came into your life to dump his emotional trauma on you.

Aly: I know that there are men out here like that I have had my fair share of them but it honestly just makes me second guess ever talking to anyone ever again and that hurts the most because now I'm carrying around emotional damage and raising a son that feels everything that I fell and he doesn't deserve that at all but I made a promise to him that I would never let him feel that he will always see his mother as the strong woman that raised him to be the king that he is meant to be.

Me: Well maybe I can show you how a queen should be treated the right way.

Aly: Maybe you can love I like what you saying so far sound like you got some sense so this might actually go somewhere after all

Me: Okay beautiful 

Me: well I gotta get to work but I do hope your day gets better and you don't have to deal with that anymore.

Aly: Thank you love, you definitely made my day better. Have a good day at work love text me when you can

~~Convo done~~

"Man yo ass been in yo phone all damn day fuck got you smiling like that?" Ace and I work together. "Damn mind yo business and let me do what I do." She really has had me smiling all day man I don't know what it is but I like her a lot honestly hopefully I don't get fucked over in the end.

~~3 days later~~

"So you gonna actually try to meet her?" Ace asked honestly with the look of worry on his face. "I mean yeah eventually but its only been a couple weeks I ain't trying to move too fast just taking stuff slow for now." I do hope to meet Aly eventually but for now we still just getting to know each other I still gotta learn a couple more things about her to see here her head really at.

"Look Erica  I'm not trying to argue with you if you don't want me to come then I won't come I will bring her gift another time and do something with her when I get her next weekend." The shit this woman puts me through make me wish I would have never met her but then I would lose my baby and I can't have that. Me and Erica met some years back and we ended up having my daughter Mikayla 2 years ago and since she got pregnant it's like a switch got flipped in her head and she completely changed and just being ignorant so I kinda limit my contact with her unless it is about my baby. "Tae that's not what I'm saying all I'm saying is you know Kyle will be there and I don't want no issues at my baby party that's all." She saying this like I'm the one that be starting shit, it be her new boyfriend acting like a bitch. "Erica I don't have any problems with anybody just let Kyle know that I'm coming for my CHILD that's it that's all if he don't start shit it won't be shit." after that I hung up cause there is nothing else to be said about the situation.