Wouldn't it be hypocrisy to say someone is hypocrite? What I learned the past few months is that: We are all hypocrites.
Would you all be perfect in an argument whether you'll win or not? Do you consider yourself an absolute right by noting someone else's mistakes? If same thoughts could ever bother you, then we are really worthy to be called hypocrites.
There are really some happenings which could make us pinpoint someone else's mistakes and could even make us mad of them regardless if their mistake had caused us damage or not. Noting their mistakes may not necessarily mean they are hated, but rather hating their unrighteous behaviours or those that needs improvement. Those especially particular of the flaws of other people might mind to confront you in privacy or as a good friend that just wanted you to be a better person. It isn't really bad to note other's flaws if it can make them better. But sometimes, too much of it can lead to a lot of misconceptions from other people which could leave them guessing how you've manage to get frank with them even if you yourself isn't working on well either. Perhaps, they too have their reasons even if they might deny and believe their notions to be all true. But wouldn't it be hypocrisy not to note their own bugging words to you? Perhaps, we've all gone through this or maybe we might not realize. But shifting to another point of view, we have been wrong too and without realizing that there are even minute things to be considered. They say, "Whatever you hate in a person reflects yourself." Aren't we all reflectors? Who among those people in this world haven't experienced hating or somehow got irritated to another person? Let's face it. We are all imperfect. And I can't do anything in order to make all the people be perfect. 'everything is connected'. And if at this moment I just lay on my bed typing this words that now you are reading and mentioning some shits I notice in other people then you might be right of what you're thinking for it is right to say that I have been wrong and I am wrong.
But is it enough for us to hate, and eventually with the Hate for other people would cause hatred to our own selves? Would God wanted us to suffer and die from guilt?
Our conscience should bother us in the first place but coming through an end with daily whispers of self hate wouldn't cause us to be a better person. If we are in this world then there's a reason for us to live and not just to end up everything just because of those nagging thoughts that tell us how much Hated are we. Regardless of all those people and things that have incited our self hate I learned that there's no one else that can understand us than God Himself. And that it uplifts me to know that I am a sinner I am labeled by my mistakes and flaws even with Hypocrisy itself because at the end of the day I know that it has the reason and it'll be between me and God anyway.
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AcakA collection of drafts I wrote from scratch papers, at the back pages of my notebooks, forgotten diaries, detained thoughts, leakage of words in some social medias and others I might be hiding in the confines of my deep enigmatic thoughts.