"You understand that you are equally unique and worthy of space."
...You stop depriving the happiness you took away from yourself years ago. Instead of shrinking your value from people's expectations, giving up what you want for other people's happiness is no longer an option. You started to compliment yourself for choosing to do the little things that makes you happy rather than focusing on what is wrong with you.
You stop blaming yourself for the bad things that is happening in your life. Instead, you're taking it as a challenge to grow and become a better person you always wanted to be. You stop listening to the curses and bad things uproaring inside your head. Instead, you started to write down every negative thoughts, get over it as soon as possible, because you believe that you deserve to be free from the daggers and weight of your thoughts and you are more than what others think.
Those little things that you did not appreciate before about yourself, started to impact how you see and value yourself now. The walks feels grounding to earth, breathing is another blessing to your soul. Eating good and healthy foods you always crave about is kind of pampering yourself after a long and exhausting day. Doing the little art and petting stray animals, is what makes you feel bigger. You started to live your life, day by day until it becomes a habit.
You love long deep talks with people that see and value your worth. You can now say no to the things that you don't really want. You know where to stand and how much value you add up in every conversation - learning when to stay silent and asserting yourself is a skill you treasure the most.
I am proud of you by making this far. I am not expecting more, but I believe that no matter where you choose to go and how greater heights you need to overcome to achieve it, you will always find your way to what fills your heart. I'm rooting for you.
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