Chapter 12 : The "Cry and Fly" Friends

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Don't waste your time with people who don't care about you. If they don't invest any time and effort or real desire to see you or do things with you like you do for them, don't bother with them. They are not worth it.
I understand there are some situations where you have to deal with people like this, like if you have a family member who doesn't care to see you. There's not much you can do. But if this is a relationship where you have a say who can come in and out of your life, take advantage of it. Don't let people walk all over you. I'm too kind, I always say yes even when I want to say no. I hate seeing people upset. I can't stand to see people hurt, especially if it was because of me. And I always keep quiet and to myself with most of my thoughts. But, if you are going to be a jerk and avoid me and come crawling back the minute you need me for something only to leave me high and dry once my help is no longer needed - that nice side is gone. My walls go up and I fight back. It may not seem as so, but I have a backbone, and it comes in handy.
I know it might be hard to let go of someone, but sometimes they have to go. But I'll warn you now, be careful who you hurt- not everyone is replaceable. If someone you know doesn't give two shits about you, don't let them think it's okay to do that to you or anyone.

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