Have you heared the story about the little girl who plays soap back then? okay let me tell it.
Once upon a time, There was a very pretty little girl who loves to play. She always wants to be alone. She did'nt socialize with people. She's kinda little brat, who wants to get what she wants. She is short tempered child and a very war freak. She fights even her cousin who always her mate. But then, she is fragile. She's jealous. And she's imperfect of her perfection. This little girl was jeal about her cousin. She feels that her family loves her cousin more than her. That cousin of her was
the one who always play with her only brother, Who always with her family in vacation, instead of that little girl. She tried to show of. She has always star in both hand. Be an honor student in kinder level. But then her mother still sees her cousin. Until she did'nt control her self, She get mad and hurt her cousin. She cries. Hopeless. Then her mother knew it, And for the very first time, She was given a punishment. Kneel in the salt. That was the worst pain for the children like that little girl who never been punished. But after that situation, She knew that her mother only wants the best for that little girl. That, that little girl might hurt because she's fragile. And that little girl should be strong and to know how to approach people. Then in process she understand that her mother loves her more than anyone else.
That situation she always remember when she plays soap everytime she will take a bath. That when she tries to wash any soap, it will never clean because its already is. That the soap can't wash because it is the one using for the thing to be wash.
That experience is like on how she play soap. That even you did your best, you can't force anyone to control them. You cant force them to love you because in the first place they are already love you more than you know. Depending on how she play soap, That even she wash the soap hundred times, in the end it will turn into bubbles. Even you try to do bad things just to show of, in the end you will realize you're wrong because the result is the result you never expect. And that's good.
The lesson here is to learn how to be patient and more undertanding. Na kahit anong gawin mong kamalian ay may punishment pa din na nag hihintay at kahit masakit man, May magandang resulta naman ito. Na kapag ang sabon ay pilit na hinugasan, may punishment pa din. Matutunaw pero may magandang kapalit, nagiging mas mabango at mga magagandang bula ang kapalit nito.
Ang maliit na batang tinutukoy sa kwento ay lumaki na. The punishment that her mom gave to her marked her. Hindi nya ito nakalimutan. And she's thankful dahil natuto itong makisama sa mga tao. At first she feels irritate and hard to approach people. Ngunit unti-unti ay nakakaramdam sya ng saya na magkaroon ng pangalawang pamilya. Na magkaroon ng kaibigan. Until now, That little pretty girl became gorgeous teen. She finally hundred percent confident on how to socialize, on how to approach people. Sumobra pa nga yata. But the better change is this little girl transformed. The brat and anti-social little girl became lovable, Sweet, Understanding, talkative, noisy and be a good citizen. Pero may hindi magandang pagbabago. Kung dati ay matalino, Ngayon e parang nabawasan yata utak nya. Pero maganda at matalino pa din naman.
That is also the reason why she take up her course now. To know her self more. To understand clearly why she've been like that. And to learn more on how to control feelings and everyones personality and behavior.
If you still don't know that little pretty girl, Then I would like to introduce her. She is the pretty girl with bangs, Loves to dress her self, Who always put an eyeliner and who loves.. herself. (Hahaha!)
This is one of my treasured story that I keep. The one of the most memorable situation that happened in my life. Na never kong sinulat sa kahit anong 'Authograph' o ano pa yan. Na never kong sinabi sa text or personal. Because I gives importance of this situation. Because of that I've change. I think if it not happen, I am still a girl without social life. And I am not memeber of our group so called- Pabebes.
