I know each and everyone of us feels how to love someone in a special way. Maybe other's doesn't have their partner but it doesn't mean that they do not feel love at all. Remember Live life with love. Love is the most powerful in this world. It inspires us to finish our work, it gives meaning in this world, it gives color in our boring life and of course it gives us a unexplainable happinness.
Do you know how does it feel to be hurt?
Base on psyhological theory, the feeling of a real pain is pain from your heart not on your mind. Minsan kasi iniisip mo lang na masakit dahil sa tinatawag natin na "ego". It comes from one of the part of our brain called "Hypothalamus". Ito rin yung nagsasabi na mahal natin ang isang tao. Ang tao kasi kapag niloko ay masasaktan talaga dahil sa pride hindi dahil mahal mo ang isang tao. Okay here it goes, You keep on thinking the person, keep on talking or chating with him or her, and you are very affected in it. Then you care, you worry and you "Think" that you're inlove. Sometimes you are just affected on what your conversations talk about. I mean kung nagpakilala sya pero puro good yung sinabi nya. Then you thinks that his your ideal guy. Everything is just an "infatuation". It's a simple definition but it gives meaning. Let me tell you if the two particular person broke, they will move on and they will go to the process of 'acceptance' kahit sino sa atin ay nahihirapan tanggapin ang katotohanan. The truth hurts but they need to accept it pero hindi porke't nasaktan ka ay nagkakahulugang mahal mo na. Nasaktan ka kasi sinaktan ka. Hindi man physically but emotionally minsan nga di natin alam mentally pala yun sinasabi nating 'emitionally' kasi yung tinatawag nating love ay part na ng psychological effect. Kung ang pagpapahiya nga sa atin ay nasasaktan tayo pero meaning ba nun ay mahal na natin agad yun kasi nasaktan tayo? Being ashamed by others hurts but it doesn't mean we're inlove with it. Hindi tayo inlove pero involve tayo.
There is a woman or a women indeed I knew. The one was experience to cry hard. Nang mag break sila ng boyfriend nya iniyakan nya talaga yun, muntik na ngang masira ang buhay nya dahil doon. Some thinks that it was a suicide but I know that it was just a stupidity. Then after a hundred days, she confront us if what she will do because her ex just text her. We thought that she have move on and thinks that she's into him. But in my observation, Namimiss nya lang yung dating sila. Since wala pa syang nagiging mas or kaseryoso noong naging karelasyon nya sya pa din yung naalala nya. Maybe there's a little feeling na naiwan sa kanya but as I was said earlier, pwedeng psychological effect iyon na iniisip nya lang.
The other girl was also broke. Pero akala nya lamang iyon. I know that it was not a real love and a real pain. We can tell that a true love is a feeling when you care, when you thinks and when you worry on that particular person. And she felt so she thinks that it must be love. But do you know that true love takes time? Because building this so called 'love' has a ingredients of trust, loyalty, honesty, understanding, forgiveness, patience, hope and of course feeling of being love. Kasi yun yung mga hinahanap hanap natin e. Love takes time because those I enumerate should built in process. Kapag isa doon wala, Dyan na pumapasok yung conflict nyo. But if marunong kayong magpatawad pwede nyong ituloy ibuilt yung kulang sa inyo pero wala na talaga, 'break' na yan! Walang forevs!
Two person is needed in order to survive the relationship. Hindi pwedeng isa lang. Kapag ikaw lang yung nagmamahal ito na yung tinatawag na 'one sided love'. Eh ano naman yung tinatawag nilang 'friendzone'? It is a kind of one sided love na naiinlove sa mga bestfriend nilang babae o lalaki. Yung mga babae na nagmamahal sa bestfriend nilang lalaki or opposites, they have an 88% of possibility na mainlove sa bestfriend nila. Why? Because they have the ingredients. Pwede ring nadadala sila sa sitwasyon or they just fell.
Remember if you are immature, youre relation will not end longer and your love is not true because its not enough. But if you are matured enough you have a perfect percent of possibility na tumagal ang relasyon nyo because youre beliefs is enough and you've learn your mistakes and that's a good sign of having an everlasting relationship.
