The Mindset

my kokoro goes dokidoki tag

I understand that this should've been done on Valentine's Day, but then I couldn't do it, so I'm doing this right in the middle of my Pre-Calculus class. But thank you to my love, bekuhyon, for tagging me. This looks fun but I'm going to get real all up in here, aight? Aight.

RULES:

- Always tag ByunNari

- tag at least 7 people

- post rules

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1. When you had your first crush?

I'm pretty sure I was a very thirsty child? Because I remember as early as second grade that I've liked a boy. Fourth grade for sure I had a crush on someone. That dude's name was Cory, and he was seriously the cutest guy in my class. Then again, that was the time when High School Musical came out and I was in love with Zac Efron. He was basically my Troy Bolton. Yeah. I'm lame, I know.

2. Single or taken?

I'm a single pringle. But, apparently has too much boy problems anyway. Welp.

3. When you had your first kiss?

Eighth grade. Stolen by a guy I only dated for a day.

4. Have you ever had your heartbroken?

I wouldn't say so... Honestly, I'm the heartbreaker when it comes to relationships. I don't mean it to be, I swear.

5. Do you have a crush at the moment?

It's complicated??? I'm not sure if I like this guy or not, because I love hanging out with him and all but he can come off as... too much? annoying? And I don't know, it's seriously something I couldn't bother myself with.

But, yooo, Chanyeol counts, right?

6. Would you like to be in a relationship?

Sure. Why not.

7. What are you looking for in a person?

The guy has to keep up with the conversation and making me laugh is a must. Just make me feel comfortable with him would be great. I can get awkward really fast unless we talk about something interesting or what not. I can only hope that we also share the same interests too.

Also, for him to not be too clingy. I don't know. All my exes were all a little overbearing and I couldn't handle all of that.

8. Have you ever been in a serious relationship?

Naaaah.

9. Describe the relationship you want to have with your significant other?

And I quote from Mio, "Chanbaek"

They honestly have the most endearing and fun kind of relationship that I would want to have with someone one day. Outgoing, caring, just out there. Just genuine.

10. Do you have any song recommendations for v day?

Um.  Only adding these because these are the songs that came up randomly on my playlist and fits. (and yes, this is basically from my EXO playlist. whatever)

     - Dream by Baekhyun and Suzy

     - Open Arms by Journey

     - Your Song by Luhan

     - First Love by EXO

11. Have you ever been in love?

NOPE.

12. Describe your first date?

The thought of going to a dinner for a first date frightens me to be honest. I'm introverted af, so starting things off with just the two of us, possibly talking, is going to freak me out. My date and I should go somewhere fun for our first date, like a comedy movie or to an amusement park? Somewhere and someplace where we can do something physically. That way, we can be having fun but also talk. We can have food right after if we need it.

13. How to win your heart?

Approach me first, make me smile or laugh, strike up a conversation about something I can reply back with. Also, dressing nicely, even though that's not really needed. Guys who actually dresses up a bit, like much more than just a shirt and jeans, those really get to me. I love that.

14. Send wishes or say something nice

I know at a young age, relationships and love is something a lot of people look forward to. It's okay to not be at the level of being comfortable with one. It's okay to take things slow with your significant other. And it's definitely okay to be single. It's not the end of the world. You can find your own happiness without dating anyone.

You just gotta live life the way you want it and be happy at what you decide. Don't push yourself to be with someone that's clearly not for you. Don't fall into pressure of doing things you don't want to do. Find someone who will understand you and will make you smile. You can take your time with love, but for now, live your life.

Tagging: baektrash -kaizar xiurious chenfetti redvelvetts amongstdreams ohsehunio

Do it if you want, lovelies!